Message to webmaster and chatroom participants

One suggestion on how to reduce the infighting that goes on here: Alter the website so when someone "registers" their name, that is their permanent screen name. Whenever an anonymous name is used, it's never a helpful or positive comment. It's always a nasty, underhanded remark that clearly is a shameful behavior otherwise why would that person hide behind a different name? For all who do participate in this behavior, remember what the definition of class is: what you do when no one is watching. Those of us currently participate on this board set the tone for all newcomers. I thought of not coming here anymore but I like the helpful info I do get so I've decided to stay. I can only speak for myself but I feel we all have a responsibility to help maintain this site as a friendly place for new brides to be (and grooms) to come and trade information. Please try not to disrespect others here and ask yourself if you would say the things you do if these people were face-to-face with you? I know this will fall on deaf ears with some but if the message reaches one person, it's worth it to me. Now back to wedding topics....

Look, my history onthis board is one of being most helpful. I am not going to respond to any more of your messages.