Michi!

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Posted by boosh78201

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that had nothing to do with my decision -- my decision was based on what it would do to her if it didn't work out and because i had no intention of making it long-term

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Ah ha, but dont you think keeping her as a friend knowing that she liked you was a little misleading to her

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ah ha, BUT if I had slept with her it would have been far worse, at least i was honest

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Posted by don424

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Posted by boosh78201

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that had nothing to do with my decision -- my decision was based on what it would do to her if it didn't work out and because i had no intention of making it long-term

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Ah ha, but dont you think keeping her as a friend knowing that she liked you was a little misleading to her

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ah ha, BUT if I had slept with her it would have been far worse, at least i was honest

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Ok well just call you honest ABE.

lol..ugh oh talk about an albino blind girl has taken over the boards...and my little story 2 has gone un-noticed and i need opinions!!! :)

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

lol..ugh oh talk about an albino blind girl has taken over the boards...and my little story 2 has gone un-noticed and i need opinions!!! :)

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ooooopppppppssssss

boosh started it

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

lol..ugh oh talk about an albino blind girl has taken over the boards...and my little story 2 has gone un-noticed and i need opinions!!! :)

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Oh Im sorry Michi!! Ok here is my advice, dont let him pick you up, meet him in a public place. I even did this with Don. We met in the city, so that way at least if he is a psycho you can get away from him quickly.

Wear whatever you want and if he doesnt like too, well boo hoo for him.

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

ok u guys r sooo right, im gonna c how the convo goes on the phone tonite tho, or else im not going LOL

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Look at it this way....


.... if he calls you and asks 'what flavor condom you prefer'... RUN!

lmao dj :::::advice noted:::

what a bizarro thread!! (blind albinos??)

Anyhow, honestly Michi I would proceed with caution .. I think I might just blow him off, to be honest. I see warning signs all over the place here and I'm not feeling it

I think that for a first conversation (wait, you haven't actually SPOKEN yet, right) .. ok well for a first 'chat' or whatever, its really a bit too much to get sexual. I don't mind flirting and I think its good to do so.. but I hate when its the first thing out of their mouths, so to speak...

IF YOU DO go, BE CAREFUL - like everyone said , meet in a public place, tell someone where you are going , yadda yadda

(but further to this... well don't even ask where DH and I met on our 'first date'.. I wasn't quite so careful. But then again we'd been chatting for months before we met and I was totally in love b/f I even met him )

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Posted by FeliciaDA



(but further to this... well don't even ask where DH and I met on our 'first date'.. I wasn't quite so careful. But then again we'd been chatting for months before we met and I was totally in love b/f I even met him )

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Im gonna ask, where did you meet DH on your first date?? Inquiring minds want to know!

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

u go boosh!! i wanna know tooo..his place or urs LOL

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maybe it was a 'no tell' motel

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

oh and also..felicia i def. agree with u, it kinda turns me off as well..that right away comments like that were made..i dont need the drama!!! so now if i dont go, how do i get out of this situation hmmmm.....working late? cats sick? dog ate my hw..dammit!! LOL

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I would just go with my gut instinct, if he sound a little flaky I wouldnt bother, make up anything. Let us know what happens!

dammit im torn! plus im not in a datey kind of mood..to b honest im kinda sick of men at the moment lol...and mind u a hottie i kno is looking for a booty call and im not even in the mood for THAT and he isssss SMOKIN HOT!!

someone call the dr., michelle doesnt even want to have S-E-X w/ a HOTTIE--hell has frozen over :)

oh um edited to say not um sex..i ment good conversation:)

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Posted by don424

maybe it was a 'no tell' motel

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Well its not that exciting. Just not something i'd normally do, nor wouuld I recommend to anyone. Our first 'date' (well it was really more like first 'meeting' since we didn't go anywhere.) was at my apartment. At 1 in the morning!

After another night of IMing and chatting forever online as was becoming our habit , we just took the plunge. We could never figure out a date to meet because we lived 1.5 hours apart, and truthfully we were both SO shy and too nervous . I loved his pics and vice versa, but honestly we worried we wouldn't 'click' in person, even though our conversations were amazing and we would talk for hours on end. I think a little part of us didn't want to risk 'ruining' this amazing online thing we had going ... and I was worried that HE would be disappointed seeing me in person

Well finally Anthony just took the bulls by the horn and spontaneously decided as we were chatting that he was coming over right then and there. I still don't believe I agreed to it, but I did! As I said he was over 1 hour drive away from me and had never been to Westchester in his life, so he had no clue where he was going ... poor guy

He stayed until 6am, we talked all night and just stared at each other mainly (I thought he was so gorgeous, what can I say ) DH drove home only to come back out the next night around 8pm for our 'official first date'

I think by the following weekend he was staying over
Needless to say, we definitely 'clicked' in person

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

dammit im torn! plus im not in a datey kind of mood..to b honest im kinda sick of men at the moment lol...and mind u a hottie i kno is looking for a booty call and im not even in the mood for THAT and he isssss SMOKIN HOT!!

someone call the dr., michelle doesnt even want to have S-E-X w/ a HOTTIE--hell has frozen over :)

oh um edited to say not um sex..i ment good conversation:)

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BTW what happened to the pics you were going to post???