Michi!

ok story # 2..


so this other guy lets call him 'M' cause we cant call him anything date related..and i exchanged emails...he actually is moving to the location right next to my job here in forest hills...so we chatted online and then immed each other..it was a nice convo we seemed to click, he looks nice in his pic..we exchanged numbers cause we said maybe we could meet by my job and get drinks friday (tomorrow) after work..

so last nite when im the phone with the other match.com loser 'M' calls.. he called my cell and i didnt pick up cause i was on the other phone and he didnt leave a message... so i wasnt sure if i should call him back since it was just a missed call.. i had to give him nice props for calling me tho...so i decided to at least try back his cell phone, it went straight to voicemail..so i said oh i c u called sorry i missed ur call, guess we'll chat later..


so now today he was online..we chatted for a bit, and hes gonna call me at 6 so we can figure out a time/place for me to meet him tomorrow...

now it sounds all good but i m nervous cause 2 things turned me off...

#1 hes being flirty and kinda said a few times how he hopes ill b wearing a sexy skirt with some heels cause he loves that,i dunno y but for some reason i hate what guys mention something like that cause i feel like i will either b a huge disappointment or thats all they care about, plus he asked if i had a tattoo or a belly ring which to me is also about sex appeal.....

#2also he did offer to pick me up (which is very nice and i appreciate it) but i told him i would rather meet him someplace then go in his car (he also knows i dont drive)...

now after this last convo i dont even know if i wanna go threw with meeting him, yet i think i will regret it if i at least dont see him in person..but certain little things r making me leery, i mean its so hard to tell how someone is over the internet..now mind u when i talk to him on the phone tonite im gonna decide i guess..by how he is on the phone..or else i will just cancel last minute (im sucha biacth i kno lol) cause he is nice yet im skeptical, and kinda lazy to go on this um 'date'

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Posted by jenny2penny

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Posted by don424

we have different philosophies on the meeting thing for sure

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don't get me wrong...I am not a shallow person,,,I don't date JCrew models...in fact most of my friends tell me after I break up with someone their flaws. But my taste is my taste and I need that 'attraction' to make me want to pursue it further.

Maybe because I am fairly shy when it comes to relationships, I am hesitant.


So what's storey #2???

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to each his own

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Posted by don424

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Posted by jenny2penny

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Posted by don424

we have different philosophies on the meeting thing for sure

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don't get me wrong...I am not a shallow person,,,I don't date JCrew models...in fact most of my friends tell me after I break up with someone their flaws. But my taste is my taste and I need that 'attraction' to make me want to pursue it further.

Maybe because I am fairly shy when it comes to relationships, I am hesitant.


So what's storey #2???

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to each his own

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Come on Don, looks matter somewhat to you too. Do I need to bring up blind albino girl?

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

i m torn with both ur opinions, i need that chemistry yet i also like pple to b about them and not how they look...both ways r cool, it def. depends on the person

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I need to have it too. I need to be physically attracted to someone as well as mentally.

They could be totally gourgeous and be an arrogant *******!

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Posted by jenny2penny

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Posted by boosh78201

Come on Don, looks matter somewhat to you too. Do I need to bring up blind albino girl?

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what's this?

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Blind albino girl was a girl that Don knew in college. She literally threw herself at him saying how much she liked him, etc.. and although they were good friends he wasnt attracted to her physically.

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Posted by jenny2penny

what was wrong with her????

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He kept saying no to her but she wouldnt let up. Eventually they stopped talking. Oh, she wasnt literally blind, I think just in one eye or something like that.

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Posted by jenny2penny

you 2 are great.....

Albino and blind....what more could you want?

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Thanks, we try to keep it interesting

Any luck on a new avatar pic?

Once again wife o' mine, you have managed to distort the truth.

Albino girl was a girl I knew in college. She was very light-skinned and had very blonde hair, almost to the point where it was white. She also had an eye problem. Here eyes were very slanted and one was crossed and she was practically blind.

Anyway, we met in college and it's true she liked me and I didn't go for it. But it wasn't because I wasn't attracted to her. i was just coming off a long-term relationship and her friendship was nice company and yes, i would've pursued it further. However, I wasn't interested in anything long-term at that point. She came from a broken home and was emotionally unstable. She'd call me late at night to come over and talk because she had taken alot of tylenols. So there were some problems there. Had I slept with her or pursued a relationship, only to break it off, it would've killed her.

so it wasn't a lack of attraction it was because of alot of other factors

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Posted by don424

Once again wife o' mine, you have managed to distort the truth.

Albino girl was a girl I knew in college. She was very light-skinned and had very blonde hair, almost to the point where it was white. She also had an eye problem. Here eyes were very slanted and one was crossed and she was practically blind.

Anyway, we met in college and it's true she liked me and I didn't go for it. But it wasn't because I wasn't attracted to her. i was just coming off a long-term relationship and her friendship was nice company and yes, i would've pursued it further. However, I wasn't interested in anything long-term at that point. She came from a broken home and was emotionally unstable. She'd call me late at night to come over and talk because she had taken alot of tylenols. So there were some problems there. Had I slept with her or pursued a relationship, only to break it off, it would've killed her.

so it wasn't a lack of attraction it was because of alot of other factors

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Please, everyone in your family thought you were crazy to even have her as a friend.

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Posted by boosh78201

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Posted by don424

Once again wife o' mine, you have managed to distort the truth.

Albino girl was a girl I knew in college. She was very light-skinned and had very blonde hair, almost to the point where it was white. She also had an eye problem. Here eyes were very slanted and one was crossed and she was practically blind.

Anyway, we met in college and it's true she liked me and I didn't go for it. But it wasn't because I wasn't attracted to her. i was just coming off a long-term relationship and her friendship was nice company and yes, i would've pursued it further. However, I wasn't interested in anything long-term at that point. She came from a broken home and was emotionally unstable. She'd call me late at night to come over and talk because she had taken alot of tylenols. So there were some problems there. Had I slept with her or pursued a relationship, only to break it off, it would've killed her.

so it wasn't a lack of attraction it was because of alot of other factors

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Please, everyone in your family thought you were crazy to even have her as a friend.

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that had nothing to do with my decision -- my decision was based on what it would do to her if it didn't work out and because i had no intention of making it long-term

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that had nothing to do with my decision -- my decision was based on what it would do to her if it didn't work out and because i had no intention of making it long-term

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Ah ha, but dont you think keeping her as a friend knowing that she liked you was a little misleading to her

Man there is some major ownage happening in this thread.

Story #2 is pretty funny. I do agree that asking somebody to wear a sexy shirt implies a sexual thing.

However I don't see anything (sexual) wrong with asking somebody if they have a naval ring or a tatoo.