MIL is scandalous!!!

imLuckyinlove Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:28 PM

MIL is scandalous!!!

Ok I need help. I have been married for almost 7 years, and love my husband very much, I have NEVER really had the chance to get along with my mother in law.. she is impossible! Anyway over the weekend I was gone for a day at the spa, and she bought a single woman over to my house and introduced her to my husband. He blew it off, thinking that she is crazy,, I need to know what to do.. HELP

I need all the adivce that I can get!!!

BJandDan Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:32 PM

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Have you husband sit her down and find out what is up. If you already have a tenous relationship with her, then you do not want to make it any worse by accusing her of anything.

Suzannebride Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:33 PM

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Holy cow...she is out of control! I think you are lucky your husband just blew it off, but I guess you should tell him how terrible it makes you feel and have him tell his mom to cool it!

cindyandkevin Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:33 PM

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My only suggestion is to have your husband speak to his mother. She needs to know that this is not acceptable behavior and not only is she disrespecting you but she is also disrespecting him. Good luck!

Mikeysgirl Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:37 PM

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Either move or put her in a home! That is ridiculous. You need to have a serious talk with her. She has some nerve bringing another woman into your house! I'm upset over this and I didn't even happen to me! Good Luck!

jenntony Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:39 PM

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OMG!!! That is so crazy i would def talk to husband about it then both of you confront MIL, that is totally rediculous of her!!

StreetDoc6531 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:42 PM

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I have to say that Im speechless!!! What a set of Balls!

bride2b24 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:54 PM

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that is insane.....i would overstep DH if i were you .......stick up for yourself!

babybug631 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 05:56 PM

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Posted by cindyandkevin

My only suggestion is to have your husband speak to his mother. She needs to know that this is not acceptable behavior and not only is she disrespecting you but she is also disrespecting him. Good luck!

I second that. She is disrespecting your house big-time.

EJSD2006 Posted: Mar 22, 2006 06:35 PM

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Posted by jenntony

OMG!!! That is so crazy i would def talk to husband about it then both of you confront MIL, that is totally rediculous of her!!

i agree with this scenario. but let your FH start the talking when you go to confront her. when she gives a reason, then you can jump in with a rebuttle. but make sure your voice is heard to. you don't want her thinking you have no back bone to stand up to her.

klslk Posted: Mar 22, 2006 07:01 PM

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Posted by imLuckyinlove

Ok I need help. I have been married for almost 7 years, and love my husband very much, I have NEVER really had the chance to get along with my mother in law.. she is impossible! Anyway over the weekend I was gone for a day at the spa, and she bought a single woman over to my house and introduced her to my husband. He blew it off, thinking that she is crazy,, I need to know what to do.. HELP

I need all the adivce that I can get!!!

Can I ask.. maybe I am missing something.... So she comes over with this woman and says what?! Did she have a reason, like this is Sue, I brought her here because....??? WHY? What the he11 was the premise?