i went with my parents to 2 places today and basically walked right out. went to lands ends and of course they asked a million questions, but we booked (deposit). all things will be a go if FI likes it. he will be home on friday and we will go over the weekend. i wish i could have done this with him, but i was worried about all the dates booking up. i am sure he'll love it, his cousin's wedding was there 3 years ago. cross your fingers for me! i would highly recommend lands end or flowerfields if any of you are still looking. i personally chose lands end over flowerfields beacuse my best friend is getting married there this summer (i am her MOH) and i wanted the oustide cocktail hour on the water. they are both awesome though. -dani