i agree with you matilde and i'd be annoyed too i also dont particularly care for how they look on little girls
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at least your FMIL agrees with you. hopefully she will get her to change her mind!!!
TakingtheLongWay
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EAK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kidding! That is whack that she is trying to tell you what you're going to do...people like that drive me crazy. I would tell her flat out heck no. It's not her wedding, it's yours!!
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dream426
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I agree with you. At least you have FMIL agreeing and she can back you up when you have to tell her. That probably makes you feel a lot better.
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I think a headband would be cute. There is no need for her to wear a tiara. I'm glad your FMIL agrees with you. That should make it much easier to resolve.
jgl
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that would bother me too tilde! I dont think that would be right, i think it would look silly!
I'm surprised your FSIL suggested using her own... that to me is strange..
lb9977
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I don't think a flower girl should wear a tiara. its good that you have FMIL on your side too.
MikeandJess
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Defiintely put your foot down and tell her how you want your FG to look. Just because it is her daughter doesn't mean she chooses the attire for your wedding, that is just ridiculous.
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Posted by MikeandJess
Defiintely put your foot down and tell her how you want your FG to look. Just because it is her daughter doesn't mean she chooses the attire for your wedding, that is just ridiculous.
exactly!
chrispar
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I was burning up just reading that...yeah that would really annoy me
ant n tilde
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thanks girls - you make me feel normal when i feel like i am bordering on psycho! lol
LoveisBliss
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that would annoy me too - and you're right, it wouldn't be fair to your neice
Jesses Girl
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its understandable why it annoyed you. thats why i am seriously thinkin of not having children in the bridal party. just gonna leave it at the bm's and gm
but it is ur wedding, her daughter is just in it. so tell her what you want.
ur way or no way
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thank goodness your fmil agreed w you. that's ridiculous, i'd be annoyed if someone was telling ME what someone in MY wedding party was going to wear!! especially a tiara!
you didn't overreact. i think most of us would have felt the same way.