Ugh so I KNOW this isnt the biggest deal but Ive had a tough weekend and I'm pmsing so I'm definitely cranky lol. We are going to the wineries for my bach party in a few months. One of my bridesmaids asked me for my list of girls besides the bridal party that I want to invite. I told her that was fine and I would work on getting it together. I wasnt sure of a few people so I wanted to sleep on it for a few days. She sends the evite out today with just the names of the people from the bachelorette party ugh! After I told her I was getting the names together and I would get them to her. Plus the people in the bridal party already confirmed that they can come that day so they didnt really need an invite yet. Ugh now I feel bad because the other girls that I'm inviting are going to get the evite later and I feel bad about that. Why are people so annoying and why couldnt she wait until I sent her the list? I dont want to make it a big deal and start a fight over it (which is why I'm venting it here LOL) but it's just annoying. Ok sorry and vent over.
MrsDrinkh20
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I would just send her the names and add them on...im sure the 'late' girls won't even notice/care! I def wouldnt make an issue out of this... Try not to let it get to you! it will work otu!
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I would just send her the names and add them on...im sure the 'late' girls won't even notice/care! I def wouldnt make an issue out of this... Try not to let it get to you! it will work otu!
ita.. just invite teh rest of people they wont know its late
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That is a annoying....things will be fine though, I don't think the other girls will be able to tell that the evite was sent a lot earlier to the other girls, they may see if some has already responed, but not exactly when or anything like that.
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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If I wasnt in the bp, and was invited later on, I wouldnt even give it a 2nd though to be honest! I sent out the emails for my bach party all the same time, but it wouldnt have mattered if i didnt... those that will come will come and those that wont wont... whether they give you an answer now or later
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by HappyBride22
That is a annoying....things will be fine though, I don't think the other girls will be able to tell that the evite was sent a lot earlier to the other girls, they may see if some has already responed, but not exactly when or anything like that.
but even then.... it went out to your bp first.... i dont see anything wrong with that.... they have to plan it dont they now if it was like a person that was left out that was added alot later, then i'd be pissed bc that just looks bad
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
If I wasnt in the bp, and was invited later on, I wouldnt even give it a 2nd though to be honest! I sent out the emails for my bach party all the same time, but it wouldnt have mattered if i didnt... those that will come will come and those that wont wont... whether they give you an answer now or later
Thank you so much! You made me feel a lot better. I think I'm a little hormonal right now LOL....and was just kinda annoyed that she did that. I spoke to her and she didnt mean any harm by it ...just wanted to get the ball rolling. You are right- that whoever can make it or wants to make it will be there. Thanks again :)
FuTuRe MrS MaZz
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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz
If I wasnt in the bp, and was invited later on, I wouldnt even give it a 2nd though to be honest! I sent out the emails for my bach party all the same time, but it wouldnt have mattered if i didnt... those that will come will come and those that wont wont... whether they give you an answer now or later
Thank you so much! You made me feel a lot better. I think I'm a little hormonal right now LOL....and was just kinda annoyed that she did that. I spoke to her and she didnt mean any harm by it ...just wanted to get the ball rolling. You are right- that whoever can make it or wants to make it will be there. Thanks again :)
no problem! its def the pms talking... i know it gets me bad and FH knows to steer clear of my warpath...
