MOH

Littletowers21 Posted: Sep 05, 2004 05:33 PM

MOH

I have a problem with my MOH. My MOH is great when I talk to her and tell her all the things that I want to do like planning and dress shopping all the little stuff she is like lets go do it tomorrow. But when I ask her to come and help me she is like I have to do something else like go to Costco or somewhere stupid. In my eyes I have known her for 20yrs and we have been best buds what is more important helping me or going to Costco. When I asked her to come and take pics of me in a dress that I really liked she was 25 min late and took 3 pics and left right away. It is like she does not want to be bothered with me or the wedding. I just can not stand it. Does anyone else have this problem?

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Sep 05, 2004 05:59 PM

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Aw. I don't have exactly the same problem, but I do avoid wedding talk with a friend of mine- I think that while she is happy for me, she might be a little jealous too. Do you think thats the case with your MOH?

champagnebride Posted: Sep 05, 2004 06:14 PM

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Sorry to her MOH is that way. I agree with brooklynbridezilla - MOH is jealous of you. I would say to have a talk with her. Ask her that what's bothering her. If she's not there for you, I would ask the other BM's to help you with your duties. I hope she comes around.

Dooodles Posted: Sep 05, 2004 07:05 PM

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Your MOH is probably a little jealous. I am having that problem with one of my bridesmaids. It's just basically my MOH and her along with a few kids. She never seems to want to come look at dresses or talk about things wedding related. While other friends of mine will talk to me for hours. Two friends actually email me pictures of things to help me out. Maybe you should ask her if 'wedding planning' is bothering her. Or do you think you would set her off further?

Butterflybride Posted: Sep 05, 2004 07:10 PM

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Posted by Littletowers21

I have a problem with my MOH. My MOH is great when I talk to her and tell her all the things that I want to do like planning and dress shopping all the little stuff she is like lets go do it tomorrow. But when I ask her to come and help me she is like I have to do something else like go to Costco or somewhere stupid. In my eyes I have known her for 20yrs and we have been best buds what is more important helping me or going to Costco. When I asked her to come and take pics of me in a dress that I really liked she was 25 min late and took 3 pics and left right away. It is like she does not want to be bothered with me or the wedding. I just can not stand it. Does anyone else have this problem?

I have the same exact problem, actually. You have to talk to her about it! It's the only solution. She more than likely does care and just doesn't realize that she's hurting your feelings.

ravens_bride Posted: Sep 05, 2004 07:12 PM

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Mine is the complete opposite. She is jealous because she had a really small wedding so she is trying to take mine over. I have to purposely not tell her I am going places sometimes, the first time around at least. I just got her to agree to the color for their dresses, though I think I will still have some problems with that....