Well I just found out my MOH is no longer involved with planning my shower she doesn't even want to come bc the other girls have yelled at her and made her uncomfortable.
My reply was that everyone are adults and the shower is for me, their best friend, and to suck it up. I told her that if she doesn't come to my shower she is letting them win and she is only hurting me.
Now I can't let any of the girls know that she said anything bc they will kick her butt.
6 women = tons of drama
SoontobeMrs.Brown
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Im sorry you are dealing with that .. What are they yelling at her about? Is there a way for maybe your mom or someone else to get involved so you dont have to be dealing with it. Its a tough spot for you because Id want to go to bat for my MOH and see what the deal is but you dont want her feeling even more uncomfortable in front of the girls for getting you involved ..
ourwedding9510
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UGH! I know this feeling! For some reason EVERYONE in my bridal party has been hating on my MOH (my future sister in law). My situation is a little different because the girls come to me about it all. But I go to MOH and confront her about things (leaving out things that might hurt her feelings).
It's not right what the girls are doing to you. I keep telling my girls 'if you have a problem, instead of getting the bride upset with 100 things she has to do, talk to her, not me, otherwise figure out a way to co-exist for a couple more months.' FSIL is family so it might be a little different situation but your MOH should be at your shower and tell the other girls, 'scuk it up!'
Future Mrs H
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i dont understand BP's sometimes. These girls act like its all about them when in reality it is about you and your FH. i am so sorry you are going through this.
elp6421
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Is there a legit reason that the other girls are treating her this way??
My girls have had enough with my MOH and I can't say that I blame them.
Either way, it stinks because it puts you in a bad position. Regardless the shower is about you so she def should be there.
ourwedding9510
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Posted by Future Mrs H
i dont understand BP's sometimes. These girls act like its all about them when in reality it is about you and your FH. i am so sorry you are going through this.
I'm with you! I don't get it AT ALL either!!!!!
DaniandKen2010
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Please don't quote as I will be deleting what I'm going to say. Unfortunately, she is just not being a very good MOH. Mom passed a couple of years ago so its just my 6 girls and FH planning. She has totally been uninvolved in everything. She always has an excuse of why she can't take part in anything from dress shopping with me, to doj/veil shopping, to BP dress shopping to not going to my bach party bc its not her thing. With my shower she has been super uncooperative demanding her way but not doing anything about it. She was supossed to be in charge of drinks, rsvps and balloons. Well drinks she 'forgot' to order, rsvps she kept forgetting to add people to the list so FH had to step in and balloons well she was supossed to get bunches of them in my colors bc she insisted my colors had to be incorporated well instead she went out and got 9 white balloons with bells. Why you ask. Because she had a coupon.
FH filled me in on the last 3 bc I wanted to know and everyone has been good with not telling me anything till MOH sent me the email.
