MOH Rant..Again-Would you be upset? Updated cant believe this happened

So if you remember, I have had moh drama in the past, well Thursday I had plans with MOH (who still hasnt seen my dress, nor know what her dress looks like) and fsil to go to the bridal shop and order their dresses. Fsil is going away the day everyone else is going, and MOH wanted to see me in the sample dress, which I am not putting on ever again! Long story short, thursday morning when i called to tell her I was leaving the house to pick her up, she informs me she made other plans..sorry..I was really upset at the time, fsil is extremely upset, and thinks I should demote her, because when everyone looks at the programs, they are going to think she did a lot of work, when really the person who does everything for me is one of the other bms. Today I call her to see when she would like to go get measured for her dress. She is complicated because she goes to school in Buffalo, while this is her last semester, we have to order the dress while she is home now, if we wait until may, there is a strong chance it wont come in on time. She informed me she has no money for something this unimportant, if I went to put down the deposit she will come with the other girls on the 8th. I want to take her to lunch and just sit her down and talk to her about what is going on with her. This is the second or third outbreak of negativity in the past 2 months!


Update So I get in touch with her today and ask her if she wants me to lay the money out for her, and that I can understand and she can pay me back whenever, but this is the last hand out..i cant afford it anymore. Well I was not expecting what came out of her...' I am not going to pay for it, and if you wont I am going to back out' so I am quick tempered and came back with ' awesome I only wanted to take you to lunch so I could ask you to step down' yea bad move on my part I know, so I continue to tell her that I just dont feel we are as close as we used to be, and I miss the friendship we had before I was engaged. I also told her about my new financial responsibilites, and how I just cant afford to pay for things the way I used to, well anyway she comes up with this story about how one of my bms,( who will be replacing her as moh) is lying to me about everything and shes mad that i dont confront her. As far as i knew, she has never lied to me, it just sounds like an exscuse to start another fight, so I told her that I just dont have room in my life for a friend like this anymore, and that I will always cherish the friendship we had, but it has been long gone, and that I feel I have been buying her friendship for a long time, and with that she hung up on me. So overall I lost my MOH tonight, but gained a lot of self respect