My sister/MOH is not sure if she is going to do a toast. I know BM usually does toast, is it very common for MOH to as well?
I hadn't really thought about it until my sister (who is my MOH) asked me if she could say something. FH just asked her if she would mind speaking before his Best Man, so that's what we are doing.
Mine will. And if she tries to refuse I'll threaten to ask one of the Bridesmaids to do it! The Best Man doesn't really know me that well (he's FH's best friend, but he lives in Montreal...) so I don't want him to be the only one who gets to speak. My side needs to be heard, too, dammit!
My MOH/sister is definately giving a speech...she is just as important as the Best man/his brother.
I was my siste's MOH and I gave one- I loved being able to express to her and my BIL how much I care about them. It was so much fun writing it, although sad too. I plan on having both my matron of honor and maid of honor giving toast/speeches as well as both of the best men.
yes
Mine did not because she was too shy in front if such a large crowd.
Posted by chellynyc
I've been the MOH in two weddings and was asked to do a toast at both. It seems that most weddings I have gone to lately, the BM and MOH make toasts. I think it should be what you want and not what everyone else is doing.
Posted by MattandTricia07
I was my siste's MOH and I gave one- I loved being able to express to her and my BIL how much I care about them. It was so much fun writing it, although sad too. I plan on having both my matron of honor and maid of honor giving toast/speeches as well as both of the best men.
its def common now and i really want my sis to but she wont!!!
