moh vent
ok, when this whole wedding planning stuff started i explicitly stated that i did not want a surprise shower or surprise bachelorette. i conceded and agreed to the surprise shower but not to a surprise bachelorette.
i found out this past weekend that my moh is planning a surprise bachelorette for me. i had to restrain myself from flipping my ****. i told her that wasn't want i wanted, made a bit of a fuss, and got her to at least give me the date (which, by the way, is not the best date for me). i spoke to one of my bm and explained the situation. she agreeed to be the go-between and to squash any ideas i wouldn't like. so i told her what i wanted to do and she told me that it actually sounded like what moh was planning. so, i figured i'd let the suprise thing slide until....
i found out from several people that moh pretty much ran the show for my shower. apparently when other people offered to help she said she didn't need help, if they made suggestions she shot them down, and basically did all the planning herself. this made me really really sad b/c all the girls in my bp are my close friends and i wanted each of them to be able to bring a part of them to my shower. OH! i also found out that moh has already sent out information to people about my bachelorette and that my sister wasn't included on it!
so now, i back to being anti-surprise bachelorette and have to put the kabash on it. like i really need one other thing to worry about!!!![]()
i found out this past weekend that my moh is planning a surprise bachelorette for me. i had to restrain myself from flipping my ****. i told her that wasn't want i wanted, made a bit of a fuss, and got her to at least give me the date (which, by the way, is not the best date for me). i spoke to one of my bm and explained the situation. she agreeed to be the go-between and to squash any ideas i wouldn't like. so i told her what i wanted to do and she told me that it actually sounded like what moh was planning. so, i figured i'd let the suprise thing slide until....
i found out from several people that moh pretty much ran the show for my shower. apparently when other people offered to help she said she didn't need help, if they made suggestions she shot them down, and basically did all the planning herself. this made me really really sad b/c all the girls in my bp are my close friends and i wanted each of them to be able to bring a part of them to my shower. OH! i also found out that moh has already sent out information to people about my bachelorette and that my sister wasn't included on it!
so now, i back to being anti-surprise bachelorette and have to put the kabash on it. like i really need one other thing to worry about!!!
