MOH/BM problem....HELP

Ok, I am getting married abroad and b/c of that are only having about 50 or so guests at my wedding. FH and I have decided we are only having a BM and MOH.....the problem with that is I have 2 best friends.
I know who I want to be my MOH and have already asked her....but I am clueless on how to break it to my other best friend...I know that she will be incredibly hurt. I actually think that if it came down to it, that she is confident I would pick her (b/c I have known her longer and kind of grew up with her)....
AHHHHH
I really don't want to hurt anyones feelings but I know that that is inevitable.....

Added to say - I am also the MOH in the wedding of the girl I asked to be mine.....

Help....

I think that's the best choice. I know someone who is having 3 MOH's (no Brides Maids) because she just could not choose.

Good luck with this! I had to do this too. She will be hurt, but if she is your friend, I think she will totally understand.

I have 2 MOH, and a Matron, they are all happy for me and happy to share

i went through the same situation.....i decided not to choose one friend over the other because there was really no reason to favor one over the other - they were both equally good friends....plus, i would not want that done to me....my advice is - either have them both as MOH or neither...sorry if i am making this even harder

Thanks for the advice!!! I think I am as confused as ever....
I have thought about having them both, but then FH thinks he will have to ask another (not to make it even, but just b/c he has 2 friends equally good as well) and then we just get into that whole 'well not that we have 4 should we just ask the others'.....blah blah blah

But I think in this case - you are right.....
I think I have to ask them both and BM can just walk down the aisle with one on each arm???

Thanks girls!

I really think you should choose both friends.

They seem to be equally important to you.

I would risk having an unequal bridal party for the sake of a good friend.