monogram question -- (xpost 2010)

OK, so i was working with an etsy vendor and she made drafts with my FH's name first. When i asked her if the brides name was supposed to be first cuz that is what i am used to seeing this was her response:

'The bride's name is supposed to be first before the wedding, and the man's name is supposed to be first after the wedding - most of my customers want the husband's name first so they can use them after the wedding.'


Soooo....what are you guys doing? have you heard of this before? now i am confused.....