I went to the christening. I didn't go to the ceremony cause I had my fitting today. It was kinda awkward when my brother tried to kiss me hello. I absentmindedly took a step back when he went to lean in and it kinda was like I'm not kissing you so he just walked away and didn't say anything to me the whole day.
My newest mental dilemma is whether or not I should send him an email expressing my feelings since I was a blubbering mess when he told me that he might not come to the wedding. It might or might not matter, but I feel it would be good for me to get what I am feeling/thinking off my chest.
SweetCin704
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BJ, I would definitely send an email expressing your feelings....you need to get it off your chest & it would be helpful for him to hear how you feel.
shellnroc
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I would definitely let him know how you feel. I think it will make you feel better getting off your chest.
CLMon7906
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i say send the email....and btw...you went to his child's christening, but he's going to skip your wedding??? yes, send the email...he needs to understand that you really are hurt/upset. you are obviously the better person...i might have skipped the christening due to the threat of skipping the wedding!!!
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I think it would be a good idea to get it off your chest. Maybe he'll change his mind about coming to the wedding, and if he doesn't, you haven't lost anything.
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I recommend sending an email as well. It seems as though your brother doesn't want to have any hard feelings too.
pavum
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def. send an email
looks like he was trying to make amends
chander618
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Definitely email him
Greek2be
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ok ... this is how brothers think .... he is M>A>D>D.MADD!!! you are his sister .. i will be honest with you , YOu should have been at the church this is your brothers new baby boy! MY fitting is way less important that my brothers child getting a baptism... i hope you are not angry at me for expressing what i feel .. but this is only how i think my brother would see me nothing but SELFISH!!!' Brothers think this way ... let it blow over .. email him ..he wont respond the first time but eventually you need to go to his house and apologize ........ take it form me ... and if he is older ... that just makes it harder... call him he is your brother ...now he is just hurt .. dont wait til he gets angry!!! That will create a mess!!! I hope i was able to help !!!
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Posted by Greek2be
ok ... this is how brothers think .... he is M>A>D>D.MADD!!! you are his sister .. i will be honest with you , YOu should have been at the church this is your brothers new baby boy! MY fitting is way less important that my brothers child getting a baptism... i hope you are not angry at me for expressing what i feel .. but this is only how i think my brother would see me nothing but SELFISH!!!' Brothers think this way ... let it blow over .. email him ..he wont respond the first time but eventually you need to go to his house and apologize ........ take it form me ... and if he is older ... that just makes it harder... call him he is your brother ...now he is just hurt .. dont wait til he gets angry!!! That will create a mess!!! I hope i was able to help !!!
Not that you aren't entitled to your opinion - but I think you may have missed BJ's earlier post about her brother saying he isn't coming to her wedding. Hence the reason she felt uncomfortable when he approaced her etc.
IMHO, he should be grateful she showed up AT ALL after the way he has treated her.
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And it was a communion, not a christening. It is in the town of Lindenhurst were apparently 1,000 children all recieve their communion at the same time. I went last year for his other daughters (my god daughter) and it was miserable for everyone.
But that isnt't really the point. As Darlene said..... he stated he might not come to my wedding because he doesn't like my fiance. That is why I am not apologizing for anything, just wanting to tell him my opinion.
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and she is niece number 6 out of 14 nieces and nephews!!!!!!!! I'm always there. Plus, I just took daugther #1 out because she got straight A's on her report card. I do more than enough for this f#cker.
DUCKS2001
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SEND HIM AN EMAIL
Tria1110
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I don't know the whole story here but I would probably send an e-mail.
That said, be prepared for not getting much resolution from doing so. He might not answer. He might answer in a way that will just make you more angry/hurt.
