More raunch- but important question

So...I absolutely have to know because I feel like I'm the only one...or that there is something wrong with me..

How many of you are able to have the big O from sex????

I always need some sort of additional stimulation if you know what I mean...

edited for spelling

I have an ****** pretty much everytime But...I have to be on top. Hence the reason being on top is my fav position

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Posted by kmiller

So...I absolutely have to know because I feel like I'm the only one...or that there is something worng with me..

How many of you are able to have the big O from sex????

I always need some sort of addiional stimulation if you know what I mean...

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Me too!

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Posted by ANT-N-BON-09

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Posted by kmiller

So...I absolutely have to know because I feel like I'm the only one...or that there is something worng with me..

How many of you are able to have the big O from sex????

I always need some sort of addiional stimulation if you know what I mean...

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Me too!

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That makes me feel better...thanks!

i used to do passion parties so a lot of women would come up to me and ask me the same question and i think that is so normal.....from what i learned you need at least 20 min of play time lol and def some sort of pressure or rubbing to a have the big O some women are lucky and dont but just from listening to all these different women most need the extra 'hand'

i forgot to add
the g spot O is also very hard to achieve and i know im not a professional but just from my experience with talking to all these different aged women half of them never had one
so dont feel bad you're not alone

Before I met fh.. every single time I had sex I needed something else like you. Now with him, I can all the time with no help! It's awesome It's great for his ego

They say MOST women do not get the big O from the man being on top or other positions too, usually when the female is on top. Women get the big O when the clitiris is stimulated, and some when its the G spot which is hard to stimulate G spot just from missionary for example and even clitiris from missionary. When a female is on top the clitiris gets stimulated so thats why. Then most common way for women to get the big O is through oral sex. So don't feel bad bc this is the case for most women.

Its just how our bodies are and through many positions it just doesnt stimulate the parts of a womans body that need to be stimulated. The g spot area is a bit up and not straight if that makes sense and when having sex its usually when it goes in straight, its not hitting that exact spot. THats why they say to put a pillow underneath you will help bc of how your body is positioned. And what can help is when you do missionary for example, to have him positioned on top of you in a way that when he moves, it will also stimulate the clitiris. So leaning a bit more on you in a way that when he goes up and down its rubbing against your clitiris. Most women tend to not do this and go in and out without getting near the clitiris. I hope that made sense and explained how he should do it. This whole post has been TMI lol but in order for him to always stimulate the clitiris your legs have to be spread apart far so he can do this, and try the pillow underneath you, it will happen. But tell him how to do it when its happening. He cant be doing it while he is sitting up straight or on knees but top body straight and he cant be completely on top of you either. The bottom part of his body should be against you and top part kind of like at a 90 degree angle

i do get the big O everytime, whether it has to be through sex or oral

well for me i ALWAYS when its oral.....when its
s-e-x sometimes i need extra help, so then we get my little friend (toy) lol or i need to get extra stimulation down there

also wanted to add i might be a weirdo, lol but i also heard most get it from being on top, but i usually get one when its missionary or doggy woof woof lol

I can ****** when he's on top but I need to tilt my pelvis up and I need for him to kiss me-LOL


I know..weird.

I have learned i am one of the lucky ones....however I do hear alot that some women have these problems. something to think about which I know is off topic but I knpw some medications can prevent you from actually having one this happened to me and I knew it was the meds because I never had a problem with that

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Posted by krislee316

I have learned i am one of the lucky ones....however I do hear alot that some women have these problems. something to think about which I know is off topic but I knpw some medications can prevent you from actually having one this happened to me and I knew it was the meds because I never had a problem with that

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i agree i think birth control is my main reason

I get the big O about 95% of the time FH and I have sex. But he is the ONLY one that this has ever happened with. I think I just got lucky and I always say to him I think it is just because we 'fit'. When I told this to a car full of my girlfriends one day they all thought I was lying.

Editted to add that it happens more often when we are in the plain old missionary position-which I know makes it even more unheard of.

I am weird.. sometimes I can't and other times I swear it could be like 7 times.. just depends.. but normally I can....I guess im lucky!

ets: I get it from both missionary and me being on top, but usually can't any other way...

this is soo bad but i can if he lasts if its like a good 25 minutes i always can sometimes it like 10-15 minutes and i just need more time..but if there is a lot of foreplay then i will b4 so it dont matter

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Posted by FutureMrsG

Almost everytime

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same here......we are lucky it looks like