Murphys Law UPDATE

Original post by jovigirl414

Jul 27, 2011 05:34 PM

Anything that can go wrong, WILL go wrong ...

Story of my life.

I must be the only person these LIW prayers don't work for. Someone up in the heavens is REALLY testing my limits, and I feel like I hit that breaking point. With a month left, I am still way short on wedding money, and all options have been exhausted.

To put it lightly, we are F@CKED. There is no other way around it.

***UPDATE***

FH went to a GM's house tonight, and they were talking about the wedding. FH was explaining how things were getting harder and harder for us, and this ANGEL of a GM whips out a wad of cash, only saying not to tell his girl!! We obviously plan on paying him back in full after the wedding, but OMG! What a Godsend!!!

Thanks again, ladies, for listening to me all this time!

jettahot Posted: Jul 28, 2011 07:51 AM

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Im so glad someone was able to help you and FH!
His generosity is rare and it is so wonderful that you have someone in your lives to assist like that!

IrishAli Posted: Jul 28, 2011 08:24 AM

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See! Everything will be ok! That is a good friend

FDNYwife1029 Posted: Jul 28, 2011 08:50 AM

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glad everything has worked out for you... keep your head up and never lose sight of the bigger picture, no matter what -- you still have your best friend/love of your life by your side!

and don't apologize, that's what we are hear for!

DreamyD Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:14 AM

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Firstly it's amazing that someone helped you!!!
I am SO glad!

Secondly-
Do not apologize for posting what you deem 'negative' ****! That's what this board and all of us girls are here for.

(Through good times and bad- in sickness and health- Till weddings do us part AND BEYOND!)

jovigirl414 Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:26 AM

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Thank you so much guys! Now I can go back to complaining that my FFIL refuses to wear a tux! HAHAHA

ImgonnabeMrsC Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:31 AM

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oh my god you are so lucky to have a great GM!!!!! that is def a godsend =)

leesah85 Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:32 AM

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CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!! What a great guy!

Soon2BMrsJoeBear Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:37 AM

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OMG what an amazing person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is the nicest thing I've ever heard someone do! How selfless!!!

Congratulations girl!!! hope that really helps you!

fdnybride163 Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:55 AM

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upgrade to best man!!

thats amazing..... good things happen to good people

CroatianBride Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:55 AM

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I just saw this thread, and I'm so glad it all worked out for you guys! You have your guardian angels looking out for you even though sometimes it might not seem that way at first....but always trust it will all work itself out in the end!

This last month focus on less stress, more

SoonToBeMrsFox Posted: Jul 28, 2011 09:58 AM

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great news!

rosatemp Posted: Jul 28, 2011 10:00 AM

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aw that really is so sweet of your gm!!! Im glad it worked out for you

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted: Jul 28, 2011 10:06 AM

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Great news.. I was in your position yesterday, freaking out, almost crying on the train.......

Glad it worked out, almost made me cry... that's how emo i am right now. Congratulations

Moonmist09 Posted: Jul 28, 2011 10:16 AM

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i'm so glad that your GM was able to help you out that way. Did the money he let you borrow solve most of the money problems or do you still have to come up with a boat load more?

ColliMac23 Posted: Jul 28, 2011 10:18 AM

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WOW! That's something DH would do but he would tell me THAT'S SO NICE

jovigirl414 Posted: Jul 28, 2011 10:20 AM

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Posted by Moonmist09

i'm so glad that your GM was able to help you out that way. Did the money he let you borrow solve most of the money problems or do you still have to come up with a boat load more?

Takes care of about 90% of our issues! He really earned his wings!!

VCanizalez Posted: Jul 28, 2011 10:22 AM

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Thank God he helped u guys
!

Tomsbride Posted: Jul 28, 2011 10:28 AM

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SO glad you got some help!

My best advice would be to cancel the vendors you don't need. Better to cut spending and lose out on what you've paid then pay for something you can't afford. Don't try to keep up treds, etc. Focus on what's important and your wedding will be beautiful no matter what!!!!