MY APOLOGY

Original post by failurebydsign

Mar 21, 2008 12:15 AM

LADIES IM SORRY

THIS HAS GOTTEN OUT OF HAND

NOBODY HAS TO REPLY BUT I JUST WANTED TO CLEAR A FEW THINGS UP

I DON'T WANT ANYONE TO THINK THAT I AM ANY BETTER THAN THEM BECAUSE I AM MARRIED NOW

ITS BEEN 3 1/2 WEEKS..THAT'S HARDLY ANYTHING

I KNOW I SPENT ALMOST 2 YEARS OF MY LIFE PLANNING FOR THIS ONE DAY AND CRIED EVERYDAY ABOUT IT AND JUST WANTED TO GET IT OVER AND DONE WITH CAUSE OF THE FINANCIAL COMMITMENT TO IT BUT ALL I MEANT IS THAT I FEEL LIKE WHEN I SEE SOMEONE FREAKING OUT ABOUT A CRY PACKET OR SOMETHING TINY..THINGS ARE STILL GOING TO BE PERFECT CAUSE YOU MADE IT THAT WAY WITH ALL YOUR PLANNING AND ITS JUST A DAY WHERE YOU SPEND A LOT OF MONEY AND THEN ITS DONE..YOU AND YOUR GUESTS ARE GOING TO HAVE AN AMAZING TIME REGUARDLESS..THAT'S WHAT I MEANT

THIS ONLY GOT OUT OF HAND BECAUSE OF THE WAY I WORDED IT

AND IF I REMEMBER SOME 08ERS THAT AREN'T MARRIED YET AGREED WITH ME SO HOW CAN THIS BE A THING ABOUT WHO'S MARRIED AND WHO IS NOT YET?

I DON'T EVEN REMEMBER MY WEDDING DAY IT WENT BY SO FAST

SO I WILL NOT DO THIS AGAIN AND IM SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPENED..I HOPE THERE AREN'T PEOPLE THAT ARE NOW NOT GOING TO CHAT WITH ME BECAUSE OF THIS..IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHO I WAS BEFORE

IM SORRY FOR ALL CAPS BUT ITS JUST A WAY TO GET THINGS ACROSS I GUESS

bluekat16 Posted: Mar 21, 2008 09:27 AM

Re: MY APOLOGY

I don't know what happened...but, I think you're just telling us not to sweat the little things because it's still going to be a perfect day no matter what and that it'll go by in a flash.

There is nothing wrong with giving advice or expressing your opinion..that is what a forum is for. Not everyone will feel the same way about everything, that's just life.

hannahshim Posted: Mar 21, 2008 09:31 AM

Re: MY APOLOGY

no need to apologize You didn't offend me

and i'm sure most of the girls knew you meant well

jgl Posted: Mar 21, 2008 09:41 AM

Re: MY APOLOGY

i think the bottom line is that people need to read these posts with interpretation. Peoples words dont always come out as they are intended to SOUND.

the only time i could see myself getting mad with a post is if someone writes something to the effect of ' I think all of you are morons for doing such and such' or 'that is hideous'
Otherwise, i usually try to think about what the person is really trying to say.

you cant be so sensitive on a chat board, for the most part you dont know these people and its the only place you can really hope to get someones true opinion