my bach party invitation list

AwaitingAugust Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:20 PM

my bach party invitation list

so i invited about 10 girls ... i have four yes's and three no's, and one maybe (but unlikely) ... but one of those yes's will prob flake out and not come.

should i change the date or just have a tiny bach party?

how many people will be going to / came to your bach party?

Panamasweet Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:22 PM

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My cousin is planning it and wants to keep everything a secret. I put about 15 people on the list and she said most are coming

jackieee Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:23 PM

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you're not going to be able to have everyone...i tried getting all my bms and moh to get a date everyone can do, and one bm is a maybe...i would just stick with that day and whoever can come, can come...dont stress it!!!

I'm inviting about 17 girls...i know not everyone will make it..oh, and my bms and moh are handling everything from now on. I know the date and the wineries will be a part of it, but everything else is on them. I gave them the list of girls and now I'm done :)

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:23 PM

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11 invited/6 attended (including me)

It was so much better that way. Everyone had an awesome time, and the people that were there were down for ANYTHING I wanted to do.

Small groups = LESS DRAMA.

soontobecruz Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:25 PM

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I have about 11 girls coming.

If you want more to come and a different date will work better I would change it. I actually had to move mine from July 31st to Aug 7th bc more girls could come. It meant more to me to have my more friends there than the date itself.

kerber981 Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:25 PM

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I did a Jack and Jill and it ended up with about 22 people. If we would have done it separately, it would have been less than 10 each (there were 22 because some people brough sig others that wouldn't have been invited had we done it separately). That's why we combined - because we have fun with larger groups. Can you do Jack and Jill?

20mrsc10 Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:26 PM

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i had 6 + me at mine, so 7 in total

Jna2010 Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:27 PM

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i was having issues with mine to and still could have gone away and it would have been 5 of us, but i was still debating and my bm was like im just concerned that it wont 'feel' like your bparty if its such a small group, which i kinda agreed with, so i changed it to accomodate more people

AngnShaun Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:28 PM

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i lucked out and had no drama even with the insane amount of people that came... but i have a big family...

i would change it to the 7th so more could come

halfbaked Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:29 PM

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There were only 4 including me at my bach. party. We had a blast... of course it was in Vegas though.

AwaitingAugust Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:32 PM

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Posted by kerber981
Can you do Jack and Jill?

Nope - FH's brothers (best men) have already started planning his day

AwaitingAugust Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:33 PM

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Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Small groups = LESS DRAMA.

lol, i suppose that's true

i'm sure i'll have fun regardless

MrsSx2 Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:34 PM

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have a tiny one...less stress!

MayBride2010 Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:46 PM

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About 10 were invited, and only 4 came.... (2 of 5 BMs, a friend, and a gay groomsman haha). Honestly - I had a blast even though there were only 5 of us total

cateydee Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:49 PM

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Posted by AwaitingAugust

Posted by kris_gets_hitched

Small groups = LESS DRAMA.

lol, i suppose that's true

i'm sure i'll have fun regardless

agreed!! there were 5 total at my Bachelorette party. it was such a perfect #

Lil OC Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:53 PM

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Posted by jilliibabii

There were only 4 including me at my bach. party. We had a blast... of course it was in Vegas though.

This is what I'm doing! 4-5 girls!

FutureLW Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:56 PM

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mine will be 8 + me.

I think you should keep the date you have. The summer is crazy for people so it's going to be really hard to find a date that works for every girl.

Also, I agree with what the other girls said about less girls = less drama!

christine2010 Posted: Jun 09, 2010 02:58 PM

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My bach party ended up being a 2 part event. First we went to dinner & that was 10 people including myself.
After dinner we went to a club in the city & that was only 5 people including myself.
I was very happy & had a great time.