So one of my BMs has planned her BDay party the weekend I wanted to have my Bachelorette thing in Boston. I emailed the girls yesterday about the weekend cuz FH will be in Vegas and I'll need my girls to keep me sane and today I get an evite on facebook about her party at her apartment on that Saturday....
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Do I call her out or change my plans or go without her??!!
jmgoncal
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She sent an evite AFTER she got your email? I would definitely call her out...
Jna2010
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call her out, is she serious??!!!
kerber981
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Is there any chance she didn't see your evite? Or had she mentioned the party before you sent it? Just trying to give her the benefit of the doubt. If not, I'd ask her but don't start with an accusation - she's going to be in your wedding and you don't want tension.
Lil OC
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Does her bday actually fall on that exact weekend?
Because if it does, then I personally think she should be able to celebrate her bday that weekend. But if thats not even her actual bday I would be annoyed.
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Posted by Lil OC
Does her bday actually fall on that exact weekend?
Because if it does, then I personally think she should be able to celebrate her bday that weekend. But if thats not even her actual bday I would be annoyed.
i dont know, but i'd def. call her out. my friend (not BM) is coming on my bachelorette cruise and its her birthday. we are just going to celebrate even more!
grkbarbie
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call her out
want me to do it?
JAAMS
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I'd ask her and make sure she actually saw the evite before she planned her party, and if she did, that isn't cool
marinai7
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Is she kidding??? I would definitely talk to her.
harts2976
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Crashing!!!
Went to a my cousins BP in Boston. AWESOME TIME!!!
Call her out! She's your BM and you only get married once! She'll have a birthday next year!!!!!
soontobecruz
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call her out!
AwaitingAugust
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i'd probably ask her to reschedule her bday party, if she can.
Sandradv121
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Woowwwwwww thats a low blow. I would call her on it. Thats not fair.
AdriandSteve
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If her bday is the same weekend or the week before or after... I don't think there's much you can do.
If you knew about her bday plans before letting everyone know the tent. date I also don't think there's much you can do.
BUT, if you told her the tent. date of your bparty BEFORE she scheduled her bday, then I'd talk to her about it.
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Hmm - it's weird that she didn't mention or reply to your email regarding Boston but then passive-aggresively sent out her evite.
Def call her out on it - something's up!
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Posted by Lil OC
Does her bday actually fall on that exact weekend?
Because if it does, then I personally think she should be able to celebrate her bday that weekend. But if thats not even her actual bday I would be annoyed.
ITA!....My bday is my fav day of the year so I would want to celebrate my bday on that weekend. Speak to her and see what she says.
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I am a huge Birthday brat so I would not be happy if i couldn't celebrate my bday on my actual bday weekend (if it falls on a weekend). if her bday is in the middle of the week then she should be able to pick the other weekend.
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Call her out and if she insists on having it then, go without her. BOO! ETA: Even if it is her birthday weekend, c'mon! Like pp said, you have a birthday every year, you only get married once! (Hopefully!)
LanaB
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deff call her out!!!
Relish21
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Ok.... so I speak to her. She doesn't have the money to go anyway... and to answer some of your questions.... her Bday is 2/11. Her OTHER friends had conflicts all the other weekends... why was U not asked?
