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My BM's are stressing me

JnA823 Posted:

My BM's are stressing me

So I have a large bridal party...8 girls. They have been going in to order their dresses for a couple of months now. I have one BM who is pregnant but is due in Feb so she ordered her dress about a month ago and it will definately be big on her...but no big deal. I have only one girl left to order before they put the whole order in. So I go to lunch yesterday with 3 of my BM's and I tell the last girl she has till 12/1 to order.... Well a few minutes later one of my other BM's tells us that she is going back to re-order b/c she is now 11 weeks pregnant. She is due 2 weeks after my wedding so she will be 9 months at the wedding. I am so excited for her and so happy for her but the girls are killing me. I really want the dresses to be ordered and now I have a little setback. I told the rest of them they better keep their legs crossed till after the wedding....lol. So my schedule is getting crazier too now. We are throwing the one girl a shower in Jan we have another friend due in april so her shower will be feb/march.. and now the girl due in june will have an april/may shower with my shower thrown in there somewhere too.

Brat23 Posted:

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I feel your pain! I have 12 BM and I had to take them in shifts to order. One was giving me a problem and the other didn't want to order because she was trying to get PG. She was insistent on the maturnity gown even though it was different. All the girls were ordered in August and although the bridal salon gave her until November to order we are still not sure what she is going to be wearing because we have no idea what she is going to look like etc....

So trust me I feel your pain!
GT143EA Posted:

Re: My BM's are stressing me

This is one of the reasons why I'm only having 3 girls!! You are the bride.....which means you are the boss and they have to do what you say. Dont stress!
B2B 2009 Posted:

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Aww I'm sorry.. I have 7 girls and took them in shifts as well but finally got them all done.. thankfully!! but it took alot of work and I actually offered to take them in shifts bc I figured it'd be difficult with all their schedules to pick a common date.. and I got a little grief from one of the girls that I was 'excluding' them by not letting them all go together soo you can't win!! Don't stress

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