My cousin just told me she can't come to my wedding. She is a bridesmaid!!!! I think she is having marital problems. I am torn between being really pissed at her and feeling bad. What should I do. Originally our bridal party was unever 3 girls 4 guys. Now I only have 2 girls. HELP!!!
ewickens
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Have 2 guys escort one BM or your MOH.
Suzannebride
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Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! I think it is very nice of you to be concerned about her. But if your biggest worry is the uneven party it's no problem! The girls can walk down the aisle separately and then on the way back up each girl gets two guys. Sound like great odds to me!
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Posted by ewickens
Have 2 guys escort one BM or your MOH.
Well I now have 2 bridesmaids and a maid of honor so I guess 2 guys per girl and the maid of honor and best man together.
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Posted by Suzannebride
Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! I think it is very nice of you to be concerned about her. But if your biggest worry is the uneven party it's no problem! The girls can walk down the aisle separately and then on the way back up each girl gets two guys. Sound like great odds to me!
What you said sounds good!
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Posted by Suzannebride
Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! I think it is very nice of you to be concerned about her. But if your biggest worry is the uneven party it's no problem! The girls can walk down the aisle separately and then on the way back up each girl gets two guys. Sound like great odds to me!
What you said sounds good!
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yeah - @ this point you have so much else going on - i would try not to freak out about it. you know she is having her own issues - so just double up your BP. it sux - im sorry
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the less the better i think...i have 7 and its a nightmare, i wish i only had a MOH...:(
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It will be fine. Have each guy with a girl on each arm.
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My cousin just told me she can't come to my wedding. She is a bridesmaid!!!! I think she is having marital problems. I am torn between being really pissed at her and feeling bad. What should I do. Originally our bridal party was unever 3 girls 4 guys. Now I only have 2 girls. HELP!!!
Just double them up. 2 guys walk down 1 girl.
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I like the doubled up look. So far we are an uneven party too. Don't worry-don't let anything upset you now-you are sooooo close to the wedding!
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or you could just have the gys up with FH already and just have the girls walk solo---I like that look too
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my bm bailed on me 2 b4 my wedding,she was having marital probs also. i had 2 ushers escort 1 bm, it looked fine