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MY BRIDESMAID BAILED 22 DAYS BEFORE MY WEDDING!

roxyvelas Posted:

MY BRIDESMAID BAILED 22 DAYS BEFORE MY WEDDING!

My cousin just told me she can't come to my wedding. She is a bridesmaid!!!! I think she is having marital problems. I am torn between being really pissed at her and feeling bad. What should I do. Originally our bridal party was unever 3 girls 4 guys. Now I only have 2 girls. HELP!!!

ewickens Posted:

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Have 2 guys escort one BM or your MOH.

Suzannebride Posted:

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Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! I think it is very nice of you to be concerned about her. But if your biggest worry is the uneven party it's no problem! The girls can walk down the aisle separately and then on the way back up each girl gets two guys. Sound like great odds to me!

roxyvelas Posted:

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Posted by ewickens

Have 2 guys escort one BM or your MOH.



Well I now have 2 bridesmaids and a maid of honor so I guess 2 guys per girl and the maid of honor and best man together.
roxyvelas Posted:

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Posted by Suzannebride

Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! I think it is very nice of you to be concerned about her. But if your biggest worry is the uneven party it's no problem! The girls can walk down the aisle separately and then on the way back up each girl gets two guys. Sound like great odds to me!



What you said sounds good!
Suzannebride Posted:

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Posted by roxyvelas


Posted by Suzannebride

Oh no, I'm sorry to hear that! I think it is very nice of you to be concerned about her. But if your biggest worry is the uneven party it's no problem! The girls can walk down the aisle separately and then on the way back up each girl gets two guys. Sound like great odds to me!



What you said sounds good!



mtdr1106 Posted:

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yeah - @ this point you have so much else going on - i would try not to freak out about it. you know she is having her own issues - so just double up your BP. it sux - im sorry
Shellycakes123 Posted:

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the less the better i think...i have 7 and its a nightmare, i wish i only had a MOH...:(

Tracyann1976 Posted:

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It will be fine. Have each guy with a girl on each arm.

TurboGirl Posted:

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Posted by roxyvelas

My cousin just told me she can't come to my wedding. She is a bridesmaid!!!! I think she is having marital problems. I am torn between being really pissed at her and feeling bad. What should I do. Originally our bridal party was unever 3 girls 4 guys. Now I only have 2 girls. HELP!!!



Just double them up. 2 guys walk down 1 girl.
snydl40 Posted:

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I like the doubled up look. So far we are an uneven party too. Don't worry-don't let anything upset you now-you are sooooo close to the wedding!
Jen2999 Posted:

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or you could just have the gys up with FH already and just have the girls walk solo---I like that look too

OctoberPrincess2006 Posted:

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PATTYLAX Posted:

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my bm bailed on me 2 b4 my wedding,she was having marital probs also. i had 2 ushers escort 1 bm, it looked fine

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