MY Bridesmaid Drama Update!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 01, 2008 08:18 PM

MY Bridesmaid Drama Update!

Okay, so I wrote my best friend and she didn't even think twice before she wrote this..llok at the response she sent me...

Its not that my plate is full right now…I cannot take the emails, the blaming, my name being left off the bridal shower invitations and all the nonsense. The other two weddings I am a part of are no fighting and I am not made out to be the bad guy.

Also, if there are no hard feelings why are my pictures erased off your Myspace? Not one photo of you and I remain. Also, your sister deleted me OR she was blocked as I had to block someone named 'Karen' who wrote me on Myspace and said that I am 'A b*tch for what I have done'. Funny how when I blocked that user Christy erased off my account.

Further, I do not feel comfortable or welcome in your home with the way your mother and sister have been acting towards me. So yes, I agree, this decision is the best one.

What do you all think? I feel like as weight has been lifted off my shoulders!

Cutechef729 Posted: Jul 01, 2008 08:20 PM

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There's obviously something else going on here and it's probably better if she isn't in the bp for your day. I'm glad you feel better.

kat124 Posted: Jul 01, 2008 08:24 PM

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I remember your old posts and I agree with Cutechef729, there is something else going on here.

She was acting weird and now seems to be saying it was in response to the way she was being treated by your family....

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 01, 2008 08:49 PM

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Oh I know, I don't get it. I didn't tell you guys the part when she called my wedding crap! That was the e-mail that my mother had received on Saturday! Today was the last straw with her. I am glad that she is out of the bp and now I can relax and be stressfree between now and September 12th!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 01, 2008 09:46 PM

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I'll tell ya, a weight as been lifted off my shoulders!!!!!!

kslmbuggie Posted: Jul 01, 2008 09:50 PM

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well at least this is over & u can move on.

P.S. DO NOT give her any $$ back for the dress, she deserves to take a loss!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 01, 2008 09:56 PM

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I feel so much better! I just didn't have it in me to do it anymore!...I was totally blown away about the whole Myspace issue..please..I don't believe that for a second!!!

And no, she is not getting any $$ back for the dress...she didn't bring it up and I am not going to. I am just gonna move on!

Cutechef729 Posted: Jul 01, 2008 10:01 PM

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Sounds like a good plan. There are so many more important things right now than for you to be in a one-sided friendship. Glad you feel better!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 01, 2008 10:24 PM

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I Do!!! I feel Awesome!!!! Is that bad???

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:02 AM

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I'm bumping this so you ladies can see what the outcome was..incase you missed it last night!!!!

SHE'S OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Kimbalina Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:04 AM

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I am sure you were taken back by that email,.. however good ridance if she really is causing all this drama.. weather or not she sees it.

futuremrsfab Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:04 AM

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ughhh at first I felt sorry for her cause it seemed like she had a lot going on- now its totally clear she's just a selfish brat- glad that she's out of your bridal party- you will have so much less stress without her

ammie1016 Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:20 AM

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Thank god the Biatch is out of the wedding. That is such a weight lifted off of your shoulders. You should be thrilled.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:21 AM

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Everyone else gets it but her! I love how it esculated from the Money to my mom and sister! My sister told me I don't need myspace to tell her she's a B^tch I can do it to her face!..lol I thought that was great! I am pissed she is blaming that it's my sister!!

I contacted the owner to my bridal place, she's offically OUT!

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:24 AM

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Posted by ammie1016

Thank god the Biatch is out of the wedding. That is such a weight lifted off of your shoulders. You should be thrilled.

You have no Idea...I responded to her e-mail with Ok...

LOL

I'm not dignifying anything she said with an answer!!

Madorie Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:25 AM

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I don't know the history but the whole situation smells like bad tuna. Sound like you are better off w/o this chick!!

PP424 Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:30 AM

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Wow, you must feel so much better that you did send her that email. Now you know the deal and probably feel really good about your decision. I'm sorry you had to go through this with your friend, but it seems like you are better off.

sweetdoublenn Posted: Jul 02, 2008 10:31 AM

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Posted by Madorie

I don't know the history but the whole situation smells like bad tuna. Sound like you are better off w/o this chick!!

Oh it was a ton of things..how she came into this wedding not expecting to pay for anything..that she thought everything was funded because that's what the other two weddings were, and it's tradition! You can't go by tradition anymore. If it was my parents would be paying for the entire wedding! Then she could only afford $100 and wouldbn't pay the extra $66 to have it at one place so now I am having 2 showers because of her. It was $166 for the place and then everyone was going to make something to bring! She wouldn't do it, could only afford $100. Then my mom wrote her about sending the check and she never e-mailed my mom back so my grandmother offered to help out and they put hre name on the invite..then she was pissed when she got the invite and her name was not on it! Claims she told my mom she would send her the money (she did not) Mom didn't even know she would contribute anything...she is still going on and on how FH's mom was paying for the whole thing! Not to mention I have not seen her in 5 months, we don't talk, she pushed me away, and didn't even call me for my birthday or make plans with me like we do every year! Why do I need someone like that at my wedding??

I'm glad she is out! Even my FSIL said I don't have to worry about her ruining my wedding!!!!