My Bridezilla moment
So my brother has been saying since i got engaged that i would turn into a bridezilla and in the past 9 months i have not had a single moment until last night.
Little back story, my younger brother has been involved with an older woman for the past several years, she has two children from previous men, ages 14 and 6 (one of my flower girls). Last year they had a child, cutest thing ever, who is my ring bearer.
Well last night my dad informs me that she is pregnant again (we had no clue they were interested in child #2/#4 so soon) and guess when the baby is due? If you are thinking the WEEK OF MY WEDDING, you are right. My wedding is Jan. 6, the baby is due Jan. 3!!!!
My dad said that my brother will still be at my wedding with my neice and nephew and that she along with the new baby and little girl will stay behind.
My bridezilla moment happened when i informed my mom that i dont care if she is in labor my brother better be on a plane to NY (they live in FL) for my wedding. The other bridezilla moment happened when my dad said calmly these things happen there is no control where upon i scremed there is control and its called birth control.
Sorry this is so long, but i am really upset by this. I can't imagine getting married without my brother there. And I feel bad that he would be leaving his new born child behind to be with me, but not bad enough to tell him to stay home. And my parents keep saying it will work out fine, but i feel no one knows that until he is on a plane headed for NY and that is still several months away. Everytime i think of him not being there i want to cry.
Little back story, my younger brother has been involved with an older woman for the past several years, she has two children from previous men, ages 14 and 6 (one of my flower girls). Last year they had a child, cutest thing ever, who is my ring bearer.
Well last night my dad informs me that she is pregnant again (we had no clue they were interested in child #2/#4 so soon) and guess when the baby is due? If you are thinking the WEEK OF MY WEDDING, you are right. My wedding is Jan. 6, the baby is due Jan. 3!!!!
My dad said that my brother will still be at my wedding with my neice and nephew and that she along with the new baby and little girl will stay behind.
My bridezilla moment happened when i informed my mom that i dont care if she is in labor my brother better be on a plane to NY (they live in FL) for my wedding. The other bridezilla moment happened when my dad said calmly these things happen there is no control where upon i scremed there is control and its called birth control.
Sorry this is so long, but i am really upset by this. I can't imagine getting married without my brother there. And I feel bad that he would be leaving his new born child behind to be with me, but not bad enough to tell him to stay home. And my parents keep saying it will work out fine, but i feel no one knows that until he is on a plane headed for NY and that is still several months away. Everytime i think of him not being there i want to cry.
