My brothers wedding is really getting on my nerves...

I wish I didnt have to go. They are getting married in June. I wont even get into the fact that I cant stand my FSIL for many many reasons. I wont get into the fact that my brother has none of his sisters or brother in the BP, or the fact that he hasnt included my mother in anything except to dictate to her when she came come up from Florida. My mother asked me to ask FSIL what her mother was wearing and what color, what color she wanted my mother to wear etc. So I mention this to FSIL and she tells me really rudely, 'I dont care what she wears'. So I tell her that my mothers alittle hurt that no one has included her in any wedding plans and maybe she should give her a call and let her know she can wear what she wants... Well the witch tells me I dont have to call anyone she has my number. Now my 14yr. daughter is in the BP, another story, anyhow, she is going to school in Florida right now so since the shower is coming up I call my brother and ask who is throwing the shower and can I have someone in the BP's number so I can offer to give them my daughters share of the Bridal Parties Shower gift. So he gives me the MOH. I call and leave a message 3days ago and she never called me back. I seriously cant stand FSIL or any of her friends. I know most of them from when I was in HS and they were obnoxious and rude then. No one in my family likes her for good reasons and I'd really like to skip the shower and send a gift, As well as the wedding. Sorry had to vent.

I didn't really want to go to my FSIL's shower either, however, there was no choice, how could I not?

There was drama in my family too, and we got through it and everything is fine, I hope!

I have learned to let things slide, most things, and just move on with your life and don't worry about the little things.

Do what you know you should do, go to the shower and before you know it, it will be over and you will be the bigger person...

The worst part about going to the shower is that my family wont be there so I will be stuck with a bunch of people I cant stand. My family wasnt even invited to the engagement party or told about it because it was for their friends only. If they started inviting family it would've cost them too much money. Then I see the pictures and her family is in it. Can you imagine inviting your friends before your family? I do avoid her and my brother as much as possible otherwise I think I'd kill them both

um....can you give your brother a big ole slap on the back of the head for me!!!!!


Now im one that my husband will be first in my life but thats cause hes a good guy!!!

Have you ever told your bro about how his FW is acting?????