My Church just totally F$%&'d me over!!!! UPDATED AGAIN! - I'M SCREWED!!!

Original post by EJSD2006

Mar 21, 2006 11:32 AM

When FH and I booked the Church, we told them it would be 5pm or 6pm Mass and she said that was fine because no one else would be getting married after us. I have everything set for a 6pm Mass, I just called to confirm our officiant and low and behold she has us down for 5pm and cant change it because there's a rehearsal after us! I'm freaking out because we just had the invitations completed and they all say 6pm!!!! FH is freaking out on me now and screaming that we will have to pay another $500 for the new invites! I just called the woman at the rectory again to see if there's any way they could change the time because the invites are done already! I'm waiting for a call back. I need prayers and hugs girls!

ETA: I spoke to the Church lady this morning and she said that she called the other bride to see if she is willing to move her rehearsal time but made sure she added that it was 'a huge inconvenience for the other bride because she may have OOT guests that will now have to leave earlier to be here'. She can bite me! I'm still waiting to see if it can be done. If not, I'm stuck with either invites with a crappy correction insert or having to spend another $500 on new invites!!!

ETA: Ok, the other bride has no heart! She's not willing to switch!!! I have to stick to 5pm! I'm so angry right now you have no idea! I hope it rains on her wedding day!

JazzyT Posted: Mar 23, 2006 09:24 PM

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OMG they church should provide somesort of reimbursement for your invites....but I know wishful thinking

ETA: I forgot to mention about the other bride she is a B!#^%H and she will get whats coming to her.

DandS Posted: Mar 23, 2006 09:25 PM

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Posted by alnem

Ok, the other bride has no heart! She's not willing to switch!!! I have to stick to 5pm!QUOTE]

OMG - All I have to say is 'what goes around comes around'!!! I can not believe that!!! I am so sorry! But something good will come out of this. You day will be AMAZING and BEAUTIFUL!

JohnnysGirl350 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:10 PM

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That is so wrong of the other bride and the church... hope it all works out perfectly for you. Her karma will get her

SomethingBlu Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:11 PM

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Posted by SuzanaS

That is the most horrible thing that i have ever heard. I am doing a rain dance for you right now.

I don't want to take away from alnem's predicament, because it's stressful. There's no need in focusing on the negative though. It's messed up, but she's done all she can and her wedding will still happen and I'm positive it will be beautiful. Karma is real and wishing another bride a bad day can't be good for anyone.

But this is not, by far the most 'horrible thing' that could happen and if it's that for you, you are very lucky and haven't experienced tragedy. Click on this link...this should show you that there are far worse things that could happen in life.

dianadrw Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:29 PM

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This certainly puts things in perspective.

Deedlebug126 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:37 PM

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I would hunt her down and beat her with your bo-k

csui25 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:44 PM

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Posted by Deedlebug126

I would hunt her down and beat her with your bo-k

That is by far the best and FUNNIEST piece of advice.

EJSD2006 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:47 PM

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Posted by csui25

Posted by Deedlebug126

I would hunt her down and beat her with your bo-k

That is by far the best and FUNNIEST piece of advice.

then I wouldn't be able to preserve it and cherish it forever. honestly, its okay girls. i'll work it out...somehow. but sasha put things into perspective and reminded us not to sweat the 'little' things (although larger when it's happening to you ) and to remember that there are far worse things going on in the world. i'll find a way to fix this...

nposa07 Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:50 PM

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I feel that b/c you are taking this so well your day will be the best ever! You are a trooper and deserve the most magical wonderful day of your life!

SomethingBlu Posted: Mar 23, 2006 10:57 PM

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Posted by alnem

Posted by csui25

Posted by Deedlebug126

I would hunt her down and beat her with your bo-k

That is by far the best and FUNNIEST piece of advice.

then I wouldn't be able to preserve it and cherish it forever. honestly, its okay girls. i'll work it out...somehow. but sasha put things into perspective and reminded us not to sweat the 'little' things (although larger when it's happening to you ) and to remember that there are far worse things going on in the world. i'll find a way to fix this...

You are amazing...I'm so happy for you!! And yes, it'll be fine...

mnd1202 Posted: Feb 07, 2007 08:28 PM

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o man that really bites...how inconsiderate can u be its a rehearsal how would she like it if that happened to her

ant n tilde Posted: Feb 07, 2007 08:36 PM

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Posted by mnd1202

o man that really bites...how inconsiderate can u be its a rehearsal how would she like it if that happened to her

lol danielle this thread is a million years old - she is happily married already dont worry about it!

madseason Posted: Feb 07, 2007 08:40 PM

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lol and I just read this and got so upset and was ready for this long post... aww...lol i didnt even think to see that her wd was 06!!

rkl1130 Posted: Feb 07, 2007 08:43 PM

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Oh no! Maybe you can talk to the other bride yourself and she'll be more amendable to changing her rehearsal time. Besides, noone send out invites for rehearsals so it shouldn't be a big deal!

CourtandJon Posted: Feb 07, 2007 11:55 PM

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But, and this has been my saving grace as of late, everything happens for a reason. So while you may not see it now, perhaps it'll make sense for you later. Maybe you're meant to get married at 5pm!

I 100% agree!!!! Couldn't agree more! Everything will work out exactly as it's planned- for that other bride as well!! Keep your head up and remember that after all of this- it will still be the best day of your life!!!!!

PapayaChic Posted: Feb 07, 2007 11:57 PM

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girls
this is an old thread
the poster is already happily married!

LaurenluvsTJ Posted: Feb 08, 2007 08:40 AM

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So how'd it all work out for you Emily?

EJSD2006 Posted: Feb 08, 2007 09:29 AM

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Posted by LaurenluvsTJ

So how'd it all work out for you Emily?

lol! how did this make its way back up?

yes girls! i'm 100% happily married. the 5pm wedding worked out just fine...actually, it worked out better than 6pm because by 6pm that day it started raining! so God did what he did for a reason. thanks though!