My dad refuses to help now what ?????

Jun 22, 2011 09:20 PM

So my father eight out refuses to help at all for my wedding. He is being a total **** about the whole gay marriage and how it's not even legal so what's the point ect.... My sister had a 50,000 wedding and he payed for it without batting an eyelash!!! But now that I am 28 an found my life partner he doesn't care. I hate that I even had to ask for his help, my father and I do not get along very well. However I am going for my second masters in teaching and working in a day care center.. Unfortenitly my fw is on workmens comp with a knee replacement that went bad :( I am so upset right now I don't know what we are going to do. Her mom is willing to give us some help but knowing everything we have to pay that goes beyond the rh is making me more ill... Any advice is grately appreciated. I don't think we are going to be having a wedding. On another note I don't want a backyard wedding! You only get married once and that is definitely not the wedding I want to tell my kids about! Also I want to have our wedding in the late spring earl summer of 2012 because I am hoping to get a real teaching job when I graduate out of new York hopefully in fl. I haven't slept in three nights over this :(