My Dad!! What should I do??

Original post by vmystique33

Feb 27, 2007 09:39 AM

I havent talked to him in 3 mnths since Christmas!! He didnt send a card for my daughters B-day in October and he never sent anything for both my daughters for Christmas not even a card and he wasnt going to call me I called him and now im getting really upset b/c it seems like he wants nothing to do with us and my feelings are really being hurt right now!! I was up all night crying b/c I dont understand how people do this!! My poor kids barely know him!! Anyway I dont know if I should just not call him or if I should? Please help

TIA
Valerie

camarogirl42482 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 08:26 PM

Re: My Dad!! What should I do??

I agree with the other girls.. write a letter or try to talk to him. Hope everything gets better for you

SAMORY Posted: Feb 28, 2007 08:29 PM

Re: My Dad!! What should I do??

Posted by cookiemonster

Maybe you could write him a letter (not an email)and tell him how you feel. A lot of times it helps to write everything down and get it out, but it doesn't set you up to be hurt like a phone call could. I'm sorry you're going through this

I agree,

diva7531 Posted: Feb 28, 2007 08:33 PM

Re: My Dad!! What should I do??

I hope it all works out!

Mssissy Posted: Feb 28, 2007 08:46 PM

Re: My Dad!! What should I do??

Maybe you can send him a 'thinking of you' card with a note inside about how you're feeling.

It was YEARS before I talked to my dad. Than one day I realized, I give everyone else a 2nd, 3rd and 4th chance but him and decided to accept him for who he is and not expect anything more. We don't talk often but at least we now keep in touch.

Hang in there and good luck