So, I found myself going to the stupid website today to see if he wrote back or not yet. It would have been sort of nice, closure maybe, if he wrote something like-hey I'm sorry for what I did to you, you're a good person who didn't deserve it and I wish you happiness. I dunno...but who CARES?
No news was really good news SO I just deleted the account. I'm not going to sit around waiting another five years to get an apology. I hope he tries to write again and feels like an ***...LOL
My ex, whom I dated for 12 years dropped off the face of the planet when he started sleeping with my best friend behind my back ( they are now married with two kids). Took me some time ....ok..umm.. YEARS..to get over it and now he just randomly sent me a message on reunion. com ( guess he lost my email) that just says ” congrats”.
That’s it. One word.
I have not heard from him in five years and I had tried contacting him a few times back when it all started..he ignored my calls/emails etc…and I gave up. There is a lot he could be congratulating me for that happened in the past five years!!! Of course I know what he’s talking about but I don't know how he found out..…
I almost died when I saw in my inbox “You have a message from blah blah blah on reunion.com” I thought it was a joke, I didn’t even remember signing up for that thing…anyway I log on and find has the audacity to bother me just to write one word?
I wrote back….'thanks, for what?'
ugh, now I wish I had just ignored it but I had to write something. I am tempted to cancel the stupid reunion membership too just so he can't write again but I don't want to seem like I care.
WHy DO I care anyway? FH is a million times better for me than he ever was and I'm SO much happier now....still. It irks me.
ValnChris
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I'm jealous...I have the thoughts of what I want to say but definitely turn into a wuss when on the spot. I never even told my former best friend off for what she did...instead I wrote her a letter a few years later telling her, even though she never apologized, that I was doing well and 'over' what happened and wanted her to know in case she ever stoppd to wonder or feel guilty...that I was fine, better off in fact, and wished them both well and a happy life together.
I know that sounds crazy but I felt a lot better after writing that. Of course she never responded but that was fine too....
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I do have to say, if he did write again, I'd be soooo tempted to write back 'Well I owe a ton of thanks. If you weren't the lying, cheating, useless weasel you are, I may not have met the man of my dreams and be 1,000 times happier than when I was with you. So, THANKS!'
That's awesome!!!
ValnChris
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it truly is...I already copied this quote and have it pasted into a Microsoft Word doc. jus t in case I get the guts up to write it:)
Sharron70
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The 'weasel' in action . . .
ValnChris
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LOL LOL LOL, I love it!!! thanks for making me laugh, been a long day!
ValnChris
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just updated..
WinterGrl09
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just updated..
08er crashing... i went through a similar situation with my ex. I just stopped talking to him completely. He tried to reconnect with me but I had no use for him. I didn't even wanna be friends.
All i have to say is stay strong and be happy that you've found your true love. Forget about him. See how worked up you get when he contacts you. It's just not worth it.
Jonas9281
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i have an ex i never got closure from...i'd die if he did that to me..i totally relate/understand....it would drive me nuts!
Sharron70
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No news was really good news SO I just deleted the account. I'm not going to sit around waiting another five years to get an apology. I hope he tries to write again and feels like an ***...LOL
Good for you girl! He'll get a lovely surprise if and when he tries to write you back and you've eliminated any temptation to write him back or obsess over whether he wrote you again or not.
Sing it with me ladies . . . 'I am woman, hear me roar . . . '
Kerin2804
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Very proud of you for being dstrong enough to realize the ex is so not worth your time, energy or anything else
