MY FBIL IS A JERKWAD AND ISN'T COMING TO THE WEDDING! (VENT!)

Original post by MJDoc12

Feb 15, 2007 11:46 AM

okay, so i'm sure many of you remember my issue with my FBIL who crossed out the '2' in # of places we reserved on the RSVP and changed it to a '7' so he could bring his rugrats. (even though a month earlier we told him no kids and he said 'ok')

well we've been unable to get in contact with FBIL for weeks. we heard thru my FFIL that FBIL said he was going to come, but only with his oldest son (16) and leaving the kids at home with the wife. well FH calls him last nite and finaly gets him on the phone, and asks 'So when are you flying in, and did you get your hotel handled?' and FBIL says 'Oh yeah...um...was meaning to call you...I can't go' W T F ?????

he gives this B.S. about how he has a lot on his plate right now, working 3 jobs, etc. and can't go cause of it. funny, cause a few weeks ago you had no problem saying you were gonna take your rugrats out of school for a week so you could DRIVE all the way from Colorado for the wedding. so FH is like 'When the fuk were you gonna tell me this?' and FBIL says 'well i don't have time to even scratch my nose, i'm so busy'

i am so angry right now...i can't believe this dikwad is doing this to his brother TEN FARKING DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING! i mean, when was he gonna tell us? had FH not tracked him down? was he gonna wait until like the nite b4? i don't understand this behavior...it's disgusting.

okay i needed to vent.....it's over now

JeanetteandSteve Posted: Feb 15, 2007 02:57 PM

Re: MY FBIL IS A JERKWAD AND ISN'T COMING TO THE WEDDING! (VENT!)

that is so aweful!! what does your fmil think about all of this? have you spoken to anyone else in fh's family about this?

i wouldn't even let him come now if he changed his mind.

you poor thing. don't let this ruin your wedding. be happy he's not there, sounds like he would find a way to ruin it even more if he actually showed.

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 03:09 PM

Re: MY FBIL IS A JERKWAD AND ISN'T COMING TO THE WEDDING! (VENT!)

People like that make me wanna
Its his brother he should at least try or at least make up a better excuse than 'im so busy i cnat even scratch my own now'.... A$shole its on ur face.. sure u can!!!

im sorry Meli.. i wish i could do or say more to help bu there are some

soon2bmrsVPT Posted: Feb 15, 2007 04:03 PM

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WHAT?!??!?!?! How can he back out now?? Tell him he has to reimburse you... lol.. I will still be there!

Katie&Chris2006 Posted: Feb 15, 2007 04:10 PM

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What an azz!
I'm so sorry!

Mrs.Ptobe Posted: Feb 15, 2007 04:18 PM

Re: MY FBIL IS A JERKWAD AND ISN'T COMING TO THE WEDDING! (VENT!)

Just the fact he was uncouth enough to cross out the 2 and add the 7 is a display of his character - or lack there of. I would have an issue if someone crossed out 2 and added 3, but for 7 I'd be so excited that he backed out. I take it this is your FH's brother? then I just feel bad for you FH, b/c that would be hard. What a classless idiot. Did he not pay for his own wedding? Adding 5 people on his own like that is so disrespectful.