My Fh is driving me crazy!!

He doesn't get it. Here I am on a Friday night making labels for our STD's and there are addresses that are missing. I have asked him time and again to get the addresses from his father. Well, he gives me a partially completed list. Would it have killed him to review it first and then get the missing addresses?! It's not like I have all the time in the world to be doing these stupid things!!! I am just as busy as he is. I have been making these STDs since mid feb and I just want to MAIL THEM OUT already!!! He is so not helping me right now I want to scream at him. Besides feeling all of the pressure to save money for the wedding and doing most of the planning by myself, I am now finding myself feeling resentful towards my FH. He is driving me crazy!!!!

Thats what men are good for!!!!LOL

I feel your anger! Since we've gotten engaged in September, I've already picked my BM and MOH. He still hasn't picked all of his guys and 2 of my girls don't have partners right now. Not to mention the guest list. My side is already done. He still has to get his side from his parents. I know we still have 18 months, but right now, I don't know if we can invite anyone from my job or his because I don't have his half of the guest list. I'm going to need it too for our STDs which I'm sending out in September. Men!!!

Mine is the SAME way. He always said he'd be a 'good groom' and help with the planning, make a website, etc. We registered the domain in January, and have been paying for it and the hosting. Has he done anything with it? NO. Has he been writing for his online writing club? Yes. In fact, the other night, he told me that he was going to stop watching wrestling after tomorrow (Wrestlemania 20), so that he could spend more time on his writing, which already dominates 90% of his free time - NO mention of the site he promised me months ago.

Oh well, if it weren't for LIW, I'd go NUTS.

Just take a deep breath and forge ahead! There are bigger things to worry about. I feel your stress, but I talk of experience!

Oh I hear ya Peg.

I was very resentful too for awhile. It took him WEEKS to get addresses. I could have throttled him.

I thought I was the only one for awhile! LOL

I guess they don't realize that this stuff is just as important as everything else in the wedding preparations?

I hope you're feeling better