My FH left for Vegas....I just asked for one thing....

That he doesnt get a LAP DANCE! This trip is for his BP.
Am I over reacting? I dont want any cheesy girl touching my man...along with ta tas in his face.

And I do trust him 100%, but still....ya know what I mean

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Posted by allisonk

That he doesnt get a LAP DANCE! This trip is for his BP.
Am I over reacting? I dont want any cheesy girl touching my man...along with ta tas in his face.

And I do trust him 100%, but still....ya know what I mean

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omg im the exact opposite. i WANT my FH to get a lap dance... mainly b/c he's not the type to get one... I actually want to hire a stripper to send to him with a little gift tag. love, wifey...

I'm sure he'll be fine, but just rememebr... he's ALL YOURS...

You're totally entitled to feel however you feel. If that is the one thing you really do not want him to be a part of, he should respect it.

My FH is going to Vegas for his bach. party and my only rule is - NO GIRLS in the room - at ALL. At the strip clubs, they're not really allowed to touch the girls and in most parts the girls undies stay on etc. In a room, the hired girls will basically do ANYTHING and I know of guys that have been a part of this 'ANYTHING' if you know what I mean, so I just don't care if they go see girls strip, or gets a lap dance or two, etc. But no girls in the room, lol. Every guy knows the rule so I really hope they respect it.

I know what you mean. Try not to think about it. Go out this weekend with your girlfriends and keep yourself occupied as much as possible

I totally understand where you are coming from.........the very thought of those dirty girls skeeves me out.

Remember the trust you have for your FH and everything will be okay.

What are you doing for your bachelorette party?

You are perfectly entitled to feel this way.

I felt the same exact way when FH went to a bachelor party for one of his friends. Later on I found that he and the groom sat around the bar and just drank and didn't even go near any dancing girls. So, don't worry about it too much or you'll go crazy. Relax, go out with friends and enjoy your weekend.

My FH is leaving today also for his BP in Vegas until Monday...he's going three mths before our wedding due to work.

I'm sure you'll have nothing to worry about with your FH, just keep yourself busy this weekend so you won't think about it.

I felt the same exact way!!! I even told his friends how i felt. I said it was dif if he was going to some strip club for someone else's BP, but not when its for him... NO way!!!! Some people said i was a little crazy, but its all good
Def go out with your friends and enjoy yourself

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Posted by MrsQ-in2007

You're totally entitled to feel however you feel. If that is the one thing you really do not want him to be a part of, he should respect it.

My FH is going to Vegas for his bach. party and my only rule is - NO GIRLS in the room - at ALL. At the strip clubs, they're not really allowed to touch the girls and in most parts the girls undies stay on etc. In a room, the hired girls will basically do ANYTHING and I know of guys that have been a part of this 'ANYTHING' if you know what I mean, so I just don't care if they go see girls strip, or gets a lap dance or two, etc. But no girls in the room, lol. Every guy knows the rule so I really hope they respect it.

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HMMMM girls in the room...I didnt even think of that. LOL I am really ok with it, other wise he would not have gone...ok, maybe he would
but, I just dont like the idea of it.
I'll have to call him later to tell him, NO Girls in the room!

I actually did something cute. I sent him a Sad Sam dog that says I love you, with a message.

Hopefully its in his room when he arrives.

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Posted by allisonk

That he doesnt get a LAP DANCE! This trip is for his BP.
Am I over reacting? I dont want any cheesy girl touching my man...along with ta tas in his face.

And I do trust him 100%, but still....ya know what I mean

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According to me, NO you're not overreacting... Others girls might say otherwise.... It doesnt come down to trust which alot of people dont seemt o understand.. I feel the exact same way as you!

I already told FH and his best friend that I dont want any girls touchin him whatsoever so that means no lappies! I didnt come all this way to have him do something he has never done in the whole 6-7 yrs we been together... And I am also going to try to plan my party at the same time as his so I dont have to think about it! LoL