My FH ruined my idea for his weddding gift... TWICE

My FH and I have been dating for 3 years and for the past few years he has been really wanting a motorcycle, but right after we get married he's being restationed (military). So, I told him to wait until we got whereever we are going.... truth is, I was planning on surprising him with a motorcycle (which would have been huge for us because we are on tight budgets)! Unfortunately, FH just couldn't wait and went out and purchased one!!!! This was about a year ago. I was soooo upset... He ruined me gift to him and didn't even know it!

Okay, time to try again... After tons of thinking... I wanted to do boudoir pictures. I was sooo excited, and then I showed him some pictures of a couple taking pictures at the beach and at one point the guy takes of his shirt and there's some sexy pics of them in the ocean. He flipped out!!! he said he didn't want a photographer to have these types of pictures of me. Mind you the girl is fully clothed, and nothing is 'R' rated. So, I knew boudoir was OUT! I told him what he ruined, and THEN he said that would be okay... haha... now that he knows what he's missing it's okay...

So this long, long story is 1. for me to express my frustration and 2. to ask for HELP...

Any Ideas? I know I don't want to get him a watch because he already has a really nice one