My FH was in a really bad car accident last night

bridget&jimmy Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:34 AM

My FH was in a really bad car accident last night

And it made me realize that some little things about the wedding just are not worth the stress the important thing is that we will be married at the end of the day.

It made me realize when we were at the hospital last night and he was apologizing because he was afraid somehow this would ruin the wedding. The car is totaled so we have to go out and buy a new car, and he is afraid because it is a lease that they will not pay off the whole thing. It made me realize that I do not care if we get married in a courthouse with jeans on, I am just so happy he is here and we can get married period.

Girls just remember with all the hussel and bussel of the wedding, in the end we will be married and that is all that is important. I know I got to caught up in the whole wedding day sometimes, and the relationship got ignored a little. And the rest of our lives are more important than one little day.

Bridget

marymoon Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:36 AM

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Thanks for that! It really is important to remember what the wedding is all about.
I'm glad jimmy is ok.

hbradio Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:37 AM

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Bridget - I am so sorry.

At least he is okay now, right? I was in a car accident a few weeks ago. I am still very shook up over it and FH just keeps reminding me thank God you are still here.

It really does put things in perspective.

Bride22BB Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:37 AM

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That is so true and I am really sorry about what happened to him..I'm glad he's okay...and you guys just hang in there, things will work, don't worry...

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:38 AM

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Bridget, I am so sorry! How is FH doing?

Donna Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:38 AM

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I'm sorry your FH was in an accident and the car is wrecked but I'm so happy to hear that he is ok.

I wish him a speedy recovery!

And as a past bride everything you said was right on target....

bridget&jimmy Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:40 AM

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He will be ok after a couple of days of healing, It could have been alot worse. When I saw the car I though it was bad. But the tow truck driver told me he is lucky he is alive.

DCSAAB06 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:41 AM

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Aw, Im sorry to hear about ur Fh but happy to hear he is ok!

Its those times when we realize how we take things for granted!

Hope he gets well soon!

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:47 AM

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Awww Bridget! I am so sorry and my prayers are with you and your FH for a speedy recovery.

I couldn't agree with you more about the value of the wedding itself opposed to the marriage.

Vicky1706 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:48 AM

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I hope your FH recovers soon and thanks for sharing the important lesson that this unfortunate experience taught you

bluegrl24ny Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:49 AM

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omg- so glad to hear that your FH is okay!!!

You're completely right about how something like this happens and it just puts everything into perspective. I'm sorry to hear about the accident, but so glad that no one was seriously injured!! Best of luck to your DH for a speedy recovery!!!

endlessluv429 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:50 AM

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oh man-i am so sorry bridget. i am so glad he is ok.

what you said is completely true. i have kept that theme throughout. it is soooo easy to get caught up in the details and in what people think. WHO CARES--it's about sharing the rest of your life with your soulmate.

you guys will be in my prayers!

LadyPrincess Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:53 AM

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Very gald you FH is ok

Yr thoughts really puts things
in perspective

MonkeyLuv Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:56 AM

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Maribelle7777 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 10:59 AM

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I am sorry to hear about the accident and I hope he recuperates soon!

You are right - in the end all that matters is that you and he are together All the rest is icing on the cake!

jen110704 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:00 AM

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I'm so glad he is ok. My FH hd a bad accident a few months ago & totalled his car.
It just makes you realize the little things don't matter.

CaCRmr Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:06 AM

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Glad to hear he's doing ok and it wasn't worse.

Thanks for the 'wakeup call'

nylibride Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:09 AM

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I'm so glad that your FH is OK!!! thanks for the reminder to keep things in perspective. I hope that you and he have a speedy recovery (his physical, yours probably from the nerves/emotions of the whole ordeal).

I'm sure that it will make your wedding day even more special (if that's possible)

carline Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:11 AM

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you are so right, it takes unfortunate situations like these to open our eyes thanks for sharing, i'm glag you fi is okay and good luck

nicknmb Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:11 AM

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Well, I am glad that he is OK.. I totally understand what you said. I was in a bad car accident in June and FH and I had the same feelings. You realize just how important the other person is to you.