My FH was in a really bad car accident last night

Original post by bridget&jimmy

Oct 13, 2004 10:34 AM

And it made me realize that some little things about the wedding just are not worth the stress the important thing is that we will be married at the end of the day.

It made me realize when we were at the hospital last night and he was apologizing because he was afraid somehow this would ruin the wedding. The car is totaled so we have to go out and buy a new car, and he is afraid because it is a lease that they will not pay off the whole thing. It made me realize that I do not care if we get married in a courthouse with jeans on, I am just so happy he is here and we can get married period.

Girls just remember with all the hussel and bussel of the wedding, in the end we will be married and that is all that is important. I know I got to caught up in the whole wedding day sometimes, and the relationship got ignored a little. And the rest of our lives are more important than one little day.

Bridget

eogara Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:16 AM

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OMG Bridget!! I'm so sorry to hear this. Is he alright?

nicpizzo Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:21 AM

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I'm so sorry that FH was in a car accident

I hope he is doing well.

bridget&jimmy Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:25 AM

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Posted by eogara

OMG Bridget!! I'm so sorry to hear this. Is he alright?

He is Ok just really bruised and beat up.

MRSJLK Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:27 AM

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FTRBRIDE Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:29 AM

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Hope he is doing better soon.

steph4777 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:30 AM

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Good to hear that he'll be OK

Sharon11 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:32 AM

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kissy27 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:32 AM

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I am so glad to see Jimmy is ok

You are 100% right with weddings though...Sometimes we all get caught up in the entire 'wedding thing' & completely forget the most important thing about a wedding is the marriage itself...It is horrible that it takes a tragedy to make us all realize it!

FH & I decided when we got engaged to not do a wedding that was over the top bc it was not necessary. It is only 5-6 hours. The marriage is the most important part!

I will keep you guys in my prayers & hope Jimmy has a speedy recovery

julz33 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:38 AM

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I am so glad your FH is OK

MrsJ Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:42 AM

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Oh no! I'm so sorry! I'm glad he is OK!!! Wow - yes, you realize what is important.
Dont worry about the car, your insurance will take care of it. Just get him better :)

eogara Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:44 AM

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Posted by bridget&jimmy

Posted by eogara

OMG Bridget!! I'm so sorry to hear this. Is he alright?

He is Ok just really bruised and beat up.

Good! It sucks that sometimes it takes something like this to make us change our perspective but hold on to it now that you have it!

MrsTC Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:45 AM

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Thank God he is ok

My dad had a car accident a few weeks ago and it was totalled. He is ok but it made me think about how busy life can be that we forget the really important things and how we can easily take things for granted.

salsbride06 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 11:46 AM

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i hope everything is ok. you just haven to remember the real reason why you get married not all the extra's. your totally right.

MCDO15 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 12:26 PM

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im glad nobody ws seriously hurt

as for your lease, your SHOULD have gap insurance (since its a lease) + insurance so you techincally should be fine...let the insurance stuff work each other out everything....

heidla Posted: Oct 13, 2004 01:05 PM

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jvs77 Posted: Oct 13, 2004 01:26 PM

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Oh my God! Thank goodness he is okay!!!

FeliciaDA Posted: Oct 13, 2004 01:29 PM

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jennmarty Posted: Oct 13, 2004 01:33 PM

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So glad to hear that he is okay. Thank you for the reminder of what this day is really truly about!! So many tragic things take a second to change your life completely!