My first breakdown!

AlmostKulak Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:51 PM

My first breakdown!

OK, so yesterday I had my first breakdown over wedding planning. I sometimes feel like I am the only person involved at all with this wedding. FH helps but it is like pulling teeth to get him to. My BP never asks how things are going or if I need any help from them. My mom feels bad about it and she is trying to help, but my sister has not fully recovered from her medical problems (posted a while back) and she is helping her with her kids a lot. I just need to know am I the only one who feels so alone??? Thanks for letting me vent!!

GabrielleandJohn Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:53 PM

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I am so sorry you are going through this but trust me you are not alone. I have alot of sisters so there is always something going on that is important with either them or their kids. And although FH is excited about the wedding I am pretty sure he thinks it is planning itself.

You are not alone and if you ever need to talk/vent, FM me!

AlmostKulak Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:55 PM

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Thank you!

bonitachyc Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:56 PM

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you aren't the only one to feel so alone! it's totally normal to feel like crap! you are human! be strong! (i'm one for words of encouragement, can you tell?) feel better!!!

MF9282 Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:57 PM

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I am with you!!! You are NOT alone!! NO one helps me, no one asks how thigns are, no one asks anything!!! I don't understand. It takes a toll on you.

diva7531 Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:59 PM

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I feel this way too. I think other people think you need help in the beggining and the end. And FH was awesome in the beggining, but he has been real busy lately! Hope you feel better!

FullersBride Posted: Apr 01, 2007 08:59 PM

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We all feel the same way at one point or another. I had my breakdown today too!!! Ice cream helped!!! You can try that

If not I send

It will get better!!! I PROMISE!!

JIFFY Posted: Apr 01, 2007 09:31 PM

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someone needs a hug and i have extra!

Queensbebe Posted: Apr 01, 2007 09:32 PM

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I'd give u words of wisdom...but right now...I'm to steamed at my FH...MEN!!! So...

Aug07OFCbride Posted: Apr 01, 2007 09:36 PM

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you need major !

lilone9 Posted: Apr 01, 2007 09:48 PM

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your not alone. i'm sure that we've all had that feeling. i know i have sometimes. this is for you

feel beter?

erdbeere Posted: Apr 02, 2007 04:08 AM

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Wow I know EXACTLY how you feel!

mskittynj Posted: Apr 02, 2007 06:42 AM

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I know it's overwhelming ot plan all by yourself, I am speaking from experience, but try to look on the bright side....Many people wish that no one helped because when people help, they have their own opinions about things....If you know what I mean Hang in there you're wedding will come soon!
XOXOXO
Kitty