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My friend wants to invite a girl as her date.....

johnsae Thread views: 2,303

My friend wants to invite a girl as her date.....

Ok, my good friend who is in the bridal party asked me over email if she could invite a girlfriend for her guest to my wedding.

She just broke up with her boyfriend, and she is really depressed about it. She just wants to know if she can invite a friend of hers (who I know and like) instead of a date.

Honestly, we have received a bunch of no's lately, and I'm a little worried about meeting our minimum.....so, I don't know what to tell her.

What would you do? Would you allow her to bring a friend as a guest?

ChrissynRicky Thread views: 2,303

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She was courteous in asking, so I say 'yes!' Absolutely.

MissingTheBGene Thread views: 2,303

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Sure. One of my friend's husband's will be away on business, she asked if she can bring her friend, whom I know as well, and I said sure. I want them to have a good time, I don't see it as a problem, but it's just IMO.

Preshy7 Thread views: 2,303

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its weird but id say yes too

MissingTheBGene Thread views: 2,303

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

She was courteous in asking, so I say 'yes!' Absolutely.

EXACTLY! She asked, she was very courteous.

BKtoLI Thread views: 2,303

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I'm in this situation and told her yes, but my difference was I'm not crazy about the friend she wants to bring. However, I did invite her and a guest, so I had to keep my lips shut. Although her live in BF's reasoning for not going with her was BS. (She told me 'he doesn't do weddings'.)

johnsae Thread views: 2,303

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Posted by BKtoLI

I'm in this situation and told her yes, but my difference was I'm not crazy about the friend she wants to bring. However, I did invite her and a guest, so I had to keep my lips shut. Although her live in BF's reasoning for not going with her was BS. (She told me 'he doesn't do weddings'.)

Ha! My Aunt 'doesn't do weddings' either

JXNOscar Thread views: 2,303

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Let her bring her friend.
she may need extra support that day as it is she just broke up her boyfriend and you, my lady will be a little busy --- another friend for her not to feel alone is a nice way for you to be her friend and some insurance that she will be okay that day.

JessicaM. Thread views: 2,303

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

She was courteous in asking, so I say 'yes!' Absolutely.

me too, especially if she is really hurting...I think we all know that weddings only exacerbate that pain.

MrsFelix Thread views: 2,303

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Posted by JXNOscar

Let her bring her friend.
she may need extra support that day as it is she just broke up her boyfriend and you, my lady will be a little busy --- another friend for her not to feel alone is a nice way for you to be her friend and some insurance that she will be okay that day.

I totally agree. Let her bring her friend for moral support.

CJStein Thread views: 2,303

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I would let her. I had broken up with a longtime boyfriend a week before a family members wedding....they told me to bring anyone I wanted b/c they had already given in their number.

SweetCin704 Thread views: 2,303

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I'd definitely let her bring her friend....

johnsae Thread views: 2,303

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Thanks for your advice, ladies. I emailed her back and told her to invite whoever she wants as her guest

kittythestray Thread views: 2,303

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I personally would definitely let her!

leighdvm Thread views: 2,303

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I have almost the same situation. My coworker broke up with her boyfriend and had no one to bring so she asked if she could bring her friend. I told her absolutely, yes! She was invited with a guest so she can bring any guest that she wishes to...

EJSD2006 Thread views: 2,303

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i dont see why not. if it will make her more comfortable then go for it. you want them all to have a good time! and you haven't reached your minimum yet so i'd say yes.