Yesterday we had a 4th of july Bar b Que, well as you know it she hears free food and drinks and makes her way over. When she gets there FH, FMIL, me and two of my friends are standing in a circle and she comes over and says hello to EVERYONE but me!! Then later on while we where doing fireworks she was throwing hers near my car after I told everyone no fireworks by my car, she was mimicing ever word that I said and then she started popping those confetti popper things over my friends head!! You would think she is 2 years old but she is 30. I do NOT want her in the wedding still and if she doesnt treat me alittle better soon then I will personally kick her out since FH doesnt have the balls to do it (even though he doesnt want her in the wedding either, they also do not get along) Anyway I really just needed to vent because I am so upset that no one seems to care about how she treats me except for FH but he wont say anything because he knows it will just cause a war... Oh well I guess this will just be one thing that I will have to suck up for the rest of my life.......
N.Y.bride
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OMG! I cant believe she would mimic what you say at 30!! She sounds like such a baby! Are other people not noticing this!
snydl40
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Give her one more strike-if she pulls another stunt-then she's out. Kick her out-don't let her disrupt your day. Good luck!
mskittynj
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One thing about FFIL's..........I think every FH should stand up to their family (and vice versa) if they are not treating us with respect! One thing I have to say about my FH is that he sticks up for me EVERYTIME anyone in his family rubs me the wrong way! NO ONE should live with other people treating them like doormats! If your FH doesn't say something I would totally tell her she's out of the wedding! People who act like A holes totally pisses me off!!! XOXOXO Kitty
sunshine1813
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All FIL are out of the mind.... LOL
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Posted by waterspout4
Um, no offense, but why did you ask her to be in BP if she doesn't even get along with FH? There are no guidelines saying siblings have to be in the BP.
FMIL had a fit when we told her that we where not gonna ask her to be in the wedding. I know thats not a good reason but we didnt want to have to deal with everything else that would have come with not putting her in the BP.
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OMG... I am so sorry! She sounds like a big baby who needs to do some serious growing up!!! At least you and your FH are on the same team with this... a lot of girls here don't have that 'luxury' - if you want to call it that - and it ends up causing problems between them. Consider yourself 'lucky' for that at least!
good luck and keep us posted! She's probably just jealous of your maturitiy level!
