*MY LAST QOTD**

9509Bride Posted: Mar 13, 2009 10:18 AM

*MY LAST QOTD**

Ladies,

My reign as BOTW is over and this is my Last QOTD! It has been great! Stayed Tuned for the new BOTW announcement....

Question:

If FH hadn't asked you, would you have asked HIM to marry you?

There is a new show on WE called Surprise Wedding and this is essentially the premise. Women ask their BF's to marry them on the spot on stage in front of everyone and on national TV!

My answer:

Uh, No.... Not that I knock any woman who has or plans to, but I just don't have the courage. I knew Fh loved me and wanted to marry me but I would always have that thought in the back of my head of whether or not he would have ever asked me or whether he said yes just because I asked.

MrsGRod09 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 10:28 AM

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If FH had not asked i would've not asked him. I would've been way to nervous. I did though used to say to him 'Dahling would you marry me' but in a playful way and he used to say yes but i wouldn't do it formally just to nervous.

chicky724 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 10:39 AM

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Noooo..... I would have been like Monica on that episode of Friends and cried through the whole thing, and then be like, 'There's a reason why girls don't do this!'

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 10:48 AM

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No way! I'm an old fashioned kind of girl!

geegee827 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 11:00 AM

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Nope. I wouldn't have had the guts.

EmiNoa628 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 11:08 AM

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I would of not done it!! I wwas bugging him for a while for an engagement ring... We already lived together (Just being Spoiled)... But he proposed without the ring and then purchased it!!! Crazy right??!! We tend to do things the opposite of everyone and fortunately it comes out just right!!

MnM182008 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 11:13 AM

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Its sort of funny because DH and I had this on going thing where we asked one another. We always knew we would get married. I felt like I wanted an official, get down on one knee with a ring proposal. I never told him that but when he did it was amazing. I don't think I would have ever gotten on one knee to propose that is for sure. Sort of old fashion in a way I guess.

coldasice217 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 11:48 AM

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No. Solely because he would have laughed at me and said no.

melcc83 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 11:53 AM

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no I would not I would probobly of asked him where this relationship was going b/c we have been together for 6 years, I dont wanna be wasting my time if he didnt see me in his future......hellop my biological clock is ticking lol

gina409 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:10 PM

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it all depends...if i brought marriage up and he see,edm intrested then yea i might have but if every time i brought it up he made a face then i would have known he never wanted to do it

stefandken Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:27 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

No way! I'm an old fashioned kind of girl!

me too!!

9509Bride Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:40 PM

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Posted by gina409

it all depends...if i brought marriage up and he see,edm intrested then yea i might have but if every time i brought it up he made a face then i would have known he never wanted to do it

ITA ...one of the girls on the show last night was in her 30's and her BF was 24!! and she kept saying 'WE' are ready, if he was so ready perhaps he would have asked you.

ttdiff11 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:41 PM

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

No way! I'm an old fashioned kind of girl!

same here!

GT143EA Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:44 PM

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Posted by stefandken

Posted by MrsDtoBe09

No way! I'm an old fashioned kind of girl!

me too!!

me three!

NikkiR515 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 01:46 PM

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Posted by ttdiff11

Posted by MrsDtoBe09

No way! I'm an old fashioned kind of girl!

same here!

Me three! Being proposed to is something I have waited for my whollllle life and while I know FH would have said yes, me proposing to him wouldn't mean as much to him as the proposal would mean to me.. To him the wedding as a whole isn't a big deal becuase we have been living together for almost two years.. For me it is a HUGE deal so that is why I would never have proposed to him if that makes any sense! lol

Summertimegal424 Posted: Mar 13, 2009 04:04 PM

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yes i think so. lol i actually am the one who asked FH out...so i could see it going that way too

nraboni Posted: Mar 13, 2009 04:19 PM

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Probably not...but I wasn't really the one who wanted to get married. He wanted to be married before we had kids and I wanted a house before any of that. We bought a house in October 2008 and he proposed in December 2008. He wants kids very quickly so I think that was his motivation for the proposal.