my maid of honor dilemma...

grrulz Posted: Oct 20, 2008 12:48 PM

my maid of honor dilemma...

Ok so my sister is my maid of honor and there are no regrets from having her. ME and her had a great relationship we are like best friends. The only iffy thing is that she will still be under aged by the time FH and I get married she will be 17!!! with this on my mind i don't know in terms of bachelorette party what would be a great thing to do. She had suggested a cruise but I just don't want her to feel like she's being left out if we decide to drink or something OMG I JUST THOUGHT OF THIS so it made me post this....any ideas???

christophersgirl Posted: Oct 20, 2008 12:52 PM

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i dont think it will be a big problem if everyone decides to drink and she can't.. she can have a virgin pina colada or daquiri instead on a cruise...it'll look the same!

Goldie39 Posted: Oct 20, 2008 01:11 PM

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Maybe you could do something doesn't involve clubs and partying, like a spa day or something. Or maybe you can have a part II bachelorette thing with you and your legal friends. ask her how she would feel about it first. I hope she wouldn't feel excluded.

amandah75 Posted: Oct 20, 2008 01:18 PM

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a cruise is prob the best way to go since you can drink anywhere on the boat and like others said, she can do virgin drinks. you'll just have to stay out of the 21 and over clubs on the ship. They have weekend cruises to nowhere out of NYC all the time.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Oct 20, 2008 02:35 PM

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do something like a spa, or cruise thing, she can always get virgin drinks.
And dont forget that for someone to sign your marrige license they MUST be over the age of 18...I had to find out about this bc my moh is going to be 19 at the time of my wedding....look into this for your county and what your church allows (if your getting married in a church...)

stinenandy2010 Posted: Oct 20, 2008 02:42 PM

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what about those burlesque(cant spell) parties. you learn how to pole dance but its really fun. they would be a good time and you don't have to worry about drinks.

Yankees2323 Posted: Oct 20, 2008 03:06 PM

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Posted by Goldie39

Maybe you could do something doesn't involve clubs and partying, like a spa day or something. Or maybe you can have a part II bachelorette thing with you and your legal friends. ask her how she would feel about it first. I hope she wouldn't feel excluded.

agree with Vanessa do a spa day and maybe have a 2nd party

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Oct 20, 2008 05:27 PM

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I was 15 when my sister got married and I was the MOH, I went to the strip club with everyone It wasnt a really down and dirty show. The guys just gave you a quick dance in front of you and ask you for money

Honestly, I would go to a spa day or a night out at a lounge. If you wanted to do something else than maybe you should do 2 days.

grrulz Posted: Oct 20, 2008 06:14 PM

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thanks soo much for your suggestions ladies

mosh424 Posted: Oct 20, 2008 07:50 PM

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Posted by Goldie39

Maybe you could do something doesn't involve clubs and partying, like a spa day or something. Or maybe you can have a part II bachelorette thing with you and your legal friends. ask her how she would feel about it first. I hope she wouldn't feel excluded.

Vanessa we think alike!!!!!! My thoughts exactly!!!