my MOH is going to give me ulcers.
And the drama continues....
SISTER:
Yes I know I'm waiting for mom she because she has to discuss this with nani and aunt kathleen too she doin ur shower and I'm doin ur party which I actually already picked the dates I don't do facebook anymore give them my number
ME
you call them, it's not the other way around. I gave you there info a while ago and you haven't contacted them.
SISTER
No u didn't u only gave me mrs cozza number and alright can't u see I'm trying to please everyone here because mom needs to figure out and I got all the dates anyways from mrs cozza bout kieths birthday and the wedding in october
ME
ok well just make sure it's enough time for andrea to figure out travel plans. that is all.
SISTER
I know that's the thing mom trying to work out because mom wants to do the shower because she already feels bad she can't do anything so that's something we tried talking about which u know I'm gonna go behind her back and put money on the hall if she doesn't decide by friday cause I got to send out invites and not to mention I have to send invites which ur bachorlette party might have to be on a thursday night because I'm sure andrea not gonna want to travel every weekend since there. Is something going on everyweekend when mom talked to mrs cozza
MY FRIEND
hey guys-
jess, do you want me to contact your sisters and just find what days they aren't available?
becca, thursday? most people wont come if it's during the week. everyone has to work. it will have to be on a weekend if you want anyone to show up.. like i told jess, i have no problem sending out invites and gathering money for deposits.. just tell me what you want me to handle. i have already called and got prices and info on limos and the club also. let me know when your around to meet up. i'm around just about everyday after 5. if you're too stressed about doing this let me know..
and was all the above messages just about the batchlorette party or the shower too? it's confusing. why do we have to talk to the moms about the batchlorette party? (first response)
you both can txt/call message back, whatever but this definiatly needs to get sorted out and planned soon.
SISTER:
I didn't know she sent that two the thing is I can't take off every weekened and andrea is already going to be back and forth three weekends in a row for the shower and the bach party is me and my mom is the shower I thought this was just a message between jess and I like I said facebook is the worst communocation I'm never on it the only reason is my phone
ME
well it can't be done during the week, and if your 'oh so important job' can't handle that ur sister is getting married and youve known about it for close to a year now, then i dont know what to tell you. and dont lie about not using facebook anymore since u post ur whole life on it every single day. if you cannot do it, let someone else handle it then. im getting tired of feeling so goddamn stressed out.
SISTER:
Um I actually don't and I'm just saying every weekend is asking to much for me to take off sorry I'm trying to get back on my feet and feeling stressed out don't even start with me today u should of at least called then go bridezilla on facebook and I don't really post my life on facebook since everyone rats on me to dad but whatever and its not like I ahvent done anything I've been sitting down talking to mom have the invitations and have the money for the hall were still deciding on a date
FRIEND:
that doesn't have to do with the batchlorette party. jess, do you want me to do the batchlorette party myself?i just put in a call to legends also, waiting for a call back with a rough estimate of the rental price. let rebecca and your mom handle the shower? let me know. and yes becca, she sent it to lesli and i also because we offered our help with the party and i've been trying to get you to sit down for the past 2 months. jess, you shouldnt be having to stress out or deal with YOUR batchlorette party! lol
ME:
that is all i was talking about. the only thing about the shower i said was the travel arrangements for andrea, im sure she doesnt want to travel to LI 5 times for every little thing if we could try to condense everything into one weekend. and i went bridezilla privately, not publicly. and yes, i did send the message to les & steph because they were anxious to help, and thats all they want to do, and they were being nice and not bumping you out of it rebecca, and its only one night, wether you can work a morning shift on a friday morning and a late afternoon shift on a saturday, your the manager, right? can't you coordinate one weekend?
no week nights. end of story. no one will come, not even me. i cannot get up for work when im out to 2 in the morning. please please please please please please please plan this out by this weekend.
legend limos is the company derek and i are using for the wedding, and the guy told me we can get a discount for bachlorette parties.....if there is a problem, I can call them. that's the only thing I am willing to help on.
no week nights. again. please.
I swear. I swear.
SISTER:
Yes I know I'm waiting for mom she because she has to discuss this with nani and aunt kathleen too she doin ur shower and I'm doin ur party which I actually already picked the dates I don't do facebook anymore give them my number
ME
you call them, it's not the other way around. I gave you there info a while ago and you haven't contacted them.
SISTER
No u didn't u only gave me mrs cozza number and alright can't u see I'm trying to please everyone here because mom needs to figure out and I got all the dates anyways from mrs cozza bout kieths birthday and the wedding in october
ME
ok well just make sure it's enough time for andrea to figure out travel plans. that is all.
SISTER
I know that's the thing mom trying to work out because mom wants to do the shower because she already feels bad she can't do anything so that's something we tried talking about which u know I'm gonna go behind her back and put money on the hall if she doesn't decide by friday cause I got to send out invites and not to mention I have to send invites which ur bachorlette party might have to be on a thursday night because I'm sure andrea not gonna want to travel every weekend since there. Is something going on everyweekend when mom talked to mrs cozza
MY FRIEND
hey guys-
jess, do you want me to contact your sisters and just find what days they aren't available?
becca, thursday? most people wont come if it's during the week. everyone has to work. it will have to be on a weekend if you want anyone to show up.. like i told jess, i have no problem sending out invites and gathering money for deposits.. just tell me what you want me to handle. i have already called and got prices and info on limos and the club also. let me know when your around to meet up. i'm around just about everyday after 5. if you're too stressed about doing this let me know..
and was all the above messages just about the batchlorette party or the shower too? it's confusing. why do we have to talk to the moms about the batchlorette party? (first response)
you both can txt/call message back, whatever but this definiatly needs to get sorted out and planned soon.
SISTER:
I didn't know she sent that two the thing is I can't take off every weekened and andrea is already going to be back and forth three weekends in a row for the shower and the bach party is me and my mom is the shower I thought this was just a message between jess and I like I said facebook is the worst communocation I'm never on it the only reason is my phone
ME
well it can't be done during the week, and if your 'oh so important job' can't handle that ur sister is getting married and youve known about it for close to a year now, then i dont know what to tell you. and dont lie about not using facebook anymore since u post ur whole life on it every single day. if you cannot do it, let someone else handle it then. im getting tired of feeling so goddamn stressed out.
SISTER:
Um I actually don't and I'm just saying every weekend is asking to much for me to take off sorry I'm trying to get back on my feet and feeling stressed out don't even start with me today u should of at least called then go bridezilla on facebook and I don't really post my life on facebook since everyone rats on me to dad but whatever and its not like I ahvent done anything I've been sitting down talking to mom have the invitations and have the money for the hall were still deciding on a date
FRIEND:
that doesn't have to do with the batchlorette party. jess, do you want me to do the batchlorette party myself?i just put in a call to legends also, waiting for a call back with a rough estimate of the rental price. let rebecca and your mom handle the shower? let me know. and yes becca, she sent it to lesli and i also because we offered our help with the party and i've been trying to get you to sit down for the past 2 months. jess, you shouldnt be having to stress out or deal with YOUR batchlorette party! lol
ME:
that is all i was talking about. the only thing about the shower i said was the travel arrangements for andrea, im sure she doesnt want to travel to LI 5 times for every little thing if we could try to condense everything into one weekend. and i went bridezilla privately, not publicly. and yes, i did send the message to les & steph because they were anxious to help, and thats all they want to do, and they were being nice and not bumping you out of it rebecca, and its only one night, wether you can work a morning shift on a friday morning and a late afternoon shift on a saturday, your the manager, right? can't you coordinate one weekend?
no week nights. end of story. no one will come, not even me. i cannot get up for work when im out to 2 in the morning. please please please please please please please plan this out by this weekend.
legend limos is the company derek and i are using for the wedding, and the guy told me we can get a discount for bachlorette parties.....if there is a problem, I can call them. that's the only thing I am willing to help on.
no week nights. again. please.
I swear. I swear.