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My North Shore Venture today

LoveyDovey Posted:

My North Shore Venture today

soooo as you may or may not know..im trying to find a place to have a ceremony

so i went to planting fields today and saw Coe Hall

it was gorgeous...its an old mansion that is currently a 'museum' but they rent it out for events

I just absolutely love the mansion feel...the price was a little high, but I think its worth it for my sanity and happiness

only problem is I have to wait a week or 2 to make sure the space is available bc they are planning an event for the weekend of my wedding, they are not sure what room they will be using

sooooooooooo while i was on the North Shore, I decided to go check out Bailey Arborteum and Chelsea Mansion

NOT GOOD AT ALL!!!

Bailey arboretum looked like a dump, I hope I dont offend anyone

but the exterior buildings were so gross and run down, I didnt even get out of my car

and Chelsea Mansion same thing...you have to travel through this dirt road all bumpy with big holes, pass by these dirty apartments with peoples bbqs and garbage outside, like stepsssss away from the mansion!!!!

and the mansion exterior was so ugly, I didn't get out there either!

please cross your fingers that planting fields works out, i reallllly liked it!!!!!

p.s. the homes/MANSIONS in muttontown are ridiculousssssssssssssssss, I couldnt believe that people live in this beautiful homes!!! I passed so many on my way to all these places!
angelabarra12 Posted:

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i hope the planting fields works out for you!! soo you can be stressfree lol and have a place for the ceremony

FutureMrsDe Posted:

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sorry Chealse mansion ****** , i am glad you found something you liked i was meaning to ask you about it.

LoveyDovey Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsDe

sorry Chealse mansion ****** , i am glad you found something you liked i was meaning to ask you about it.



I hope I didn't offend you!

I was super excited to go see it, I made an appt today and everything...but I was so disappointed when I pulled up, the grounds were not nice at all, I was shocked because after seeing their site, I had this beautiful image in my head

I still appreciate you giving me the idea tho!
JLWSJC Posted:

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Ugh, I can't imagine having to go venue shopping for the ceremony too! How frustrating

Good luck though! I know you said North Shore near Muttontown, but where else are you open to looking, like how far from RH?
LoveyDovey Posted:

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id like to stay close

but im open to hearing any options!
LoveyDovey Posted:

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and yes its frustrating!

there are days where im like ugghhhh why i can't just be OK with what I already have!!!


and days where im excited to look and find something I love
JLWSJC Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey

id like to stay close

but im open to hearing any options!



What's close though? Cause I'm not entirely positive where your RH is...
Caprica6 Posted:

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Posted by LoveyDovey


Posted by FutureMrsDe

sorry Chealse mansion ****** , i am glad you found something you liked i was meaning to ask you about it.



I hope I didn't offend you!

I was super excited to go see it, I made an appt today and everything...but I was so disappointed when I pulled up, the grounds were not nice at all, I was shocked because after seeing their site, I had this beautiful image in my head

I still appreciate you giving me the idea tho!



Yeah, when i pulled up with my mom and grandma, without even going in the mansion, they said NO WAY. There were pot holes in the dirt road, my grandma had to be helped stepping over roots from big trees etc. I don't want anyone breaking a hip on my special day lol.

Planting fields or bailey is being redone.. i dont remember which one because i saw so many... but you should ask or look that up to check.

Did you try coindre hall?? or hempstead house???
mrsq2be Posted:

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I hope Coe Hall works out for you!

Muttontown is NUTS! I work right over there... and it is CRAZZY! I work in Brookville, and houses there, muttontown, oyster bay, east norwich all those surrounding aread are super huge and GORGEOUS! lol make me sad that I am not rich! haha
mrsq2be Posted:

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Posted by JLWSJC


Posted by LoveyDovey

id like to stay close

but im open to hearing any options!



What's close though? Cause I'm not entirely positive where your RH is...



yeah, I dont know where your RH is either.. maybe we can all brainstorm and try to find a place for you!
soontobmrsmike Posted:

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Another frustrating step to the wedding planning. Noone realizes how hard it is to find the right place. Some people are easy going but unfortanetely im not one of those people. My poor FH I have dragged him from on part of the island to the other to try and find the outdoor/cocktail hr beautiful ballroom, gardens and or water view that im exhausted. We still haven't found anything we like more than where we are booked already. It just stinks when you have an image in your mind of what you want and u can't have it.. ONLY CHILD syndrome right here.....

Moonmist09 Posted:

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planting fields is so pretty! i am taking my e-pics there! hope it works out if that is where you want to have your ceremony!

LoveyDovey Posted:

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Posted by Caprica6


Posted by LoveyDovey


Posted by FutureMrsDe

sorry Chealse mansion ****** , i am glad you found something you liked i was meaning to ask you about it.



I hope I didn't offend you!

I was super excited to go see it, I made an appt today and everything...but I was so disappointed when I pulled up, the grounds were not nice at all, I was shocked because after seeing their site, I had this beautiful image in my head

I still appreciate you giving me the idea tho!



Yeah, when i pulled up with my mom and grandma, without even going in the mansion, they said NO WAY. There were pot holes in the dirt road, my grandma had to be helped stepping over roots from big trees etc. I don't want anyone breaking a hip on my special day lol.

Planting fields or bailey is being redone.. i dont remember which one because i saw so many... but you should ask or look that up to check.

Did you try coindre hall?? or hempstead house???




thanks! glad to know i wasnt crazy to think that about chelsea!

bailey is being redone, the guy told me to call back in may to set up a visit, so we'll see where im at in may and maybbbee ill give them a second chance

i did not try coindre hall or hempstead house...they do ceremony only??
MrsVtoBe Posted:

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Glad it worked out for you, and you feel a little less streesed.

I am taking my epics at Planting Fields next month, it's gorgeous there.

FH's cousin lives at Bailey's and is the caretaker of the grounds there. I am not a big fan of the place either, but in the summer the grounds are supposedly gorgeous when everything is in bloom.
Caprica6 Posted:

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Posted by Caprica6


Posted by LoveyDovey


Posted by FutureMrsDe

sorry Chealse mansion ****** , i am glad you found something you liked i was meaning to ask you about it.



I hope I didn't offend you!

I was super excited to go see it, I made an appt today and everything...but I was so disappointed when I pulled up, the grounds were not nice at all, I was shocked because after seeing their site, I had this beautiful image in my head

I still appreciate you giving me the idea tho!



Yeah, when i pulled up with my mom and grandma, without even going in the mansion, they said NO WAY. There were pot holes in the dirt road, my grandma had to be helped stepping over roots from big trees etc. I don't want anyone breaking a hip on my special day lol.

Planting fields or bailey is being redone.. i dont remember which one because i saw so many... but you should ask or look that up to check.

Did you try coindre hall?? or hempstead house???




thanks! glad to know i wasnt crazy to think that about chelsea!

bailey is being redone, the guy told me to call back in may to set up a visit, so we'll see where im at in may and maybbbee ill give them a second chance

i did not try coindre hall or hempstead house...they do ceremony only??



Not sure if they do ceremony only, but it wouldn't hurt to ask.. i am sure they can accommodate you..

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