My Shower a little long (vent)
I had my shower last sunday which it was great my mom and my MOH did a great job. It was at my house, they made it into a garden party (even though it was HOT) but it turned out great. They had their own theme colors it was apple green and pink. It was the best because people danced, drank, and even jumped into the pool with their clothes on. It was fun. but there is always something that goes wrong
Now my FI side of the family is small (tiny) so we invited his friends. My mom told me that they did not RSVP so my FI had to call them and asked them if they were going to the shower. They all told him that they were going. it was about five women. Well at the party i noticed a whole table was missing and i asked who was supposed to come. (his family and friends). We are still waiting for their apology or excuse.
Now my FI was upset because why do they say their coming and then do not. At least call and make up a lame excuse. or why say yes and then do not go. Just because it was in my back yard doen't mean you do not have to RSVP my mom still had to pay for their place setting, food, chair.
Now we are thinking twice on inviting them to the wedding can you just imagine they RSVP and the day of the wedding no one shows up. That is 10 people, now that is a lot of money to waste.
should we invite them?
I told my FI if they do not RSVP i will not call them. If they show up well they will be embarassed because they will not have a table to sit at.
I hate people who do not RSVP
thanks for letting me vent![]()
Now my FI side of the family is small (tiny) so we invited his friends. My mom told me that they did not RSVP so my FI had to call them and asked them if they were going to the shower. They all told him that they were going. it was about five women. Well at the party i noticed a whole table was missing and i asked who was supposed to come. (his family and friends). We are still waiting for their apology or excuse.
Now my FI was upset because why do they say their coming and then do not. At least call and make up a lame excuse. or why say yes and then do not go. Just because it was in my back yard doen't mean you do not have to RSVP my mom still had to pay for their place setting, food, chair.
Now we are thinking twice on inviting them to the wedding can you just imagine they RSVP and the day of the wedding no one shows up. That is 10 people, now that is a lot of money to waste.
should we invite them?
I told my FI if they do not RSVP i will not call them. If they show up well they will be embarassed because they will not have a table to sit at.
I hate people who do not RSVP
thanks for letting me vent
