MY SHOWER IS SATURDAY...THE SURPRISE WAS RUINED!!!!

I just received an email from the SAME girl who didnt' attend my bachelorette party although she PAID for her and her sisters ticket (because of Ernesto traveling up to NY) and lost out on money telling me that she won't be able to come to the wedding because her good friend had a baby and is paying for their AIRPLANE tickets to florida on 10/13 - our wedding day!!! The baptism is on 10/14..and they can't fly out then? Her sister won't come w/out her and now that's 3 places we have to fill.

Yet she expects for me to attend this birthday party for her sister on Saturday? You just cost me over $300!!! I don't think so!! I can't believe that people are so rude!


Update: IT WAS SUPPOSED TO BE A SURPRISE...BUT THANKS TO A CERTAIN SOMEONE IT NO LONGER IS.

I called my MOH and told her about the email I got..and told her if this is the day of my shower please let me know because I have no intention of attending her sisters party. Well..it turns out this was my shower..so I will be going..but now I plan to surprise the other guests. We are going to keep it to ourselves..and I will surprised them with something.

I'm still pissed off that she ruined the surprise by telling me that she isn't attending after having KNOWN FOR 1 YEAR AND RESPONDING IMMEDATELY THAT 3 OF THEM WERE COMING...but whatever it's her friggin loss if she doesn't come to my wedding.

WOW!! What nerve-- that's very rude... I'm so sorry!!

I'm sorry you have to deal with rude people right before your wedding.

To update you all....the girl called last night and left a message saying that they are going to try and get a later flight or early the next morning. I don't understand why that didn't occur to her to begin with...and as a result of that stupidity the surprise shower was ruined.

Oh well.