My shower is this weekend..

And, I'm getting very panicky and some anxiety - what's wrong w/ me?!

nothing, is wrong with you
totally normal to be nervous before an important event

just try to relax and enjoy yourself

Eh, I think its natural to be anxious over these things. Dont worry. You'll be fine after a few minutes of being there. I'm prob going to be the same way. I am not big on being in the spot light - which may pose a few problems on my wedding day

it's normal to be nervous! i was fine until the day of, then got so anxious before going in. i also hate being the center of attention, but that's nothing a glass of wine can't cure!

enjoy your shower!!!

Awww it will be fabulous! Enjoy your day don't be nervous

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Posted by NC1011

Eh, I think its natural to be anxious over these things. Dont worry. You'll be fine after a few minutes of being there. I'm prob going to be the same way. I am not big on being in the spot light - which may pose a few problems on my wedding day

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I knowwww - I feel the same way

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Posted by teenigrrl

it's normal to be nervous! i was fine until the day of, then got so anxious before going in. i also hate being the center of attention, but that's nothing a glass of wine can't cure!

enjoy your shower!!!

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Wine! lol...yes, this is true...

The day of my shower I was drinking a vodka cranberry as I waited for FH to finish getting ready and drive me there... it was white cranberry juice so he came downstairs and thought I was drinking straight vodka! LOL

Seriously though, I was so nervous and anxious for the few hours leading up to it and as soon as I got inside and saw my friends and family, it was a huge relief. I had such a great time and being in the spotlight wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be!

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Posted by Dee0522

The day of my shower I was drinking a vodka cranberry as I waited for FH to finish getting ready and drive me there... it was white cranberry juice so he came downstairs and thought I was drinking straight vodka! LOL

Seriously though, I was so nervous and anxious for the few hours leading up to it and as soon as I got inside and saw my friends and family, it was a huge relief. I had such a great time and being in the spotlight wasn't nearly as bad as I thought it would be!

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Yeah, my fh says the worst part is the anticipation...so I'm hoping once I am in there, I'll be ok.

Dont worry!!!! You'll have a great time!!!!!

Get excited!!
FRIENDS and FAMILY
PRESENTS
FOOD
FUN!!

So much good things to think about! So don't be nervous! It will be a blast!

you are probably more anxious than anything you will have a great time!

I think it's normal to feel this way. Once you're there and see how great everything is going you'll be just fine!

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Posted by Espo22

you'll be fine..i started shaking once i got there and i have no idea why. I said hello quickly and went straight to the bar had a drink and then just went over to say hello to everyone and after a few minutes i was fine.

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Yeah - I'm sure I'll get the same way .. I dont do well w/ crowds of ppl, especially when they're all there for ME

I'm planning on having a drink b4 I get there...just to loosen up a bit, lol

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Posted by Nc82

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Posted by Espo22

you'll be fine..i started shaking once i got there and i have no idea why. I said hello quickly and went straight to the bar had a drink and then just went over to say hello to everyone and after a few minutes i was fine.

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Yeah - I'm sure I'll get the same way .. I dont do well w/ crowds of ppl, especially when they're all there for ME

I'm planning on having a drink b4 I get there...just to loosen up a bit, lol

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good idea, i should've done that

dont worry go there feeling excited, its something great

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by Nc82

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Posted by Espo22

you'll be fine..i started shaking once i got there and i have no idea why. I said hello quickly and went straight to the bar had a drink and then just went over to say hello to everyone and after a few minutes i was fine.

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Yeah - I'm sure I'll get the same way .. I dont do well w/ crowds of ppl, especially when they're all there for ME

I'm planning on having a drink b4 I get there...just to loosen up a bit, lol

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good idea, i should've done that

dont worry go there feeling excited, its something great

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Yeah...I'm hoping that will ease me a bit...cause the past few days, my gosh, I've been so nervous!
I was starting to feel like a weirdo - I'm glad it's not just me...