my sil is a B....-Update

kabo0831 Posted: Jul 10, 2007 10:47 PM

my sil is a B....-Update

a couple of mths back she has asked me Fh to cook for my nephews 1st b-dya party. Well she called me to yelling at me becuase she thought she was getting it for free. I said to her that im paying for a wedding and an E-party and i cant afford to do it for free.. So my Fh was going to charge her 300 dollars 150 for the food and 150 for the prep, gas, and also his time that he puts into it. Well she told me just to for get it and that she will have it catered and my brother doesnt want him to do it. So i call my Brother and he had no idea this was going on and that his wife shouldnt of said that becuase he was going to pay us and all that and so now my FH is not going to do it which i totally understand and now they are going to have it catered from a ital place and the full tray feed 12-16 ppl and they think that that is going to be enough for 40+50 ppl that are coming and they are getting 3 trays for 80 a piece. with tax that comes to also 400 so they would have saved with my FH and also they would also be getting 4 trays with us and a seafood salad too. Well also she didnt even ask my mom is she can use our house and pool for this party she just sent the invites out with our address on it. I think she is so selfish it isnt funny and then next time she wants something she can go kiss where the sun dont b/c im not doing anything for her any more she can ask her other half her other B.T.ch twin...... Sorry long vent.... thanks for listenig

Well i got a call from her at 8:30am and i didnt answer b/c i was with a patient and she left me a message 5 mins long say im sorry like 20,000 time and that she was like please dont get mad at your mom, dad, or eddie it was me i didnt ask i just jumped the gun and im so so so sorry and she was like can you please call me back i want to speak with you and im so so sorry again. Now she knows that she doesnt own my brother and my brother can think and speak for himself.....

Thanks ladies for all the comments on this and thanks for being there for my big vent...

DINAAMATUCCIO Posted: Jul 10, 2007 10:53 PM

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omg sorry to hear that ... it seems like this SIL wants to be in control of everything and get everything for free and handed to her ... ignor her .. when you ignor someone and show them that they arent going to put you in a bad mood it bothers them even more.. even if you fuming inside dont show her that you are. No sweat off your back now you dont have to do the work !!

tinadansr Posted: Jul 10, 2007 10:55 PM

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sorry to hear that hun! Yeah i would do the ignoring her thing it will make your lfe less stressful!

mdawg Posted: Jul 10, 2007 11:02 PM

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yowza... thats pretty bad... she definitely sounds obnoxious. like i said in a previous post...i HATE people who try to get everything for nothing.... it drives me up the wall! good luck to her trying to feed that many people with a tiny lil budget. i know this sounds bad, but i hope its the worst party shes ever thrown... people remember the bad ones more than they remember the good. :)