Do any of you ever wonder if you can really spend the rest of your life with just one person?
RedsBride
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Yea, i've thought about that before. I think it's pretty normal to ask yourself that question...especially when you are in the process of getting ready to be married. I always weigh the pro's and con's that I find myself involved in with fh and the pro's always outweigh it cuz I love him.
For instance, he's got a lot of family issues with his mom and sister that i've found myself involved in and normally someone wouldn't want to deal with that stuff and just leave, but not me. I love him too much and it's those thoughts that let me know he's the one I wanna be with forever and i'm good with him being the only person I will be with forever. I hope that made sense lol.
Why are your thoughts going to that? Just wondering.
FallBride2010
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I used to...but havent for a long time. I've kind of settled into the reality that 'this is it.' : )
christine2010
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honestly i have never wondered that. a lot of my friends who have gotten married, prior to their weddings spoke to old boyfriends just to make sure things were over & done with. i think i have never wondered that because FH was my first boyfriend. kinda like, i don't know what else is out there. but thats they way i like it. i don't like change & since he has been a constant in an ever changing world for me thats what makes me realize that i can be with him forever.
grrulz
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i haven't thought of this yet! i guess i am too busy thinking on other things!!! my day was really busy! lol
Reymiliz
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thats was cute christine .....
Umm my opinion is yes and no ... IF YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE THEN YESSS OF COURSE ... but if you dont then no, some ppl get marrid for all the wrong reasons not because they are in love , but becuz they are comfortable or because they have kids , etc .
But if ur in it becuz u love him & he loves u then why not wake up every morning smiling !
JoanneAndJustin
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Nope. I was hard-wired for monogamy. I've always thought about spending my life with just one person.
Yankees2323
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i dont wanna think about it lol
Yankees2323
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Posted by christine2010
honestly i have never wondered that. a lot of my friends who have gotten married, prior to their weddings spoke to old boyfriends just to make sure things were over & done with. i think i have never wondered that because FH was my first boyfriend. kinda like, i don't know what else is out there. but thats they way i like it. i don't like change & since he has been a constant in an ever changing world for me thats what makes me realize that i can be with him forever.
awwww super cute!!!
Nurse12985
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Of course!! I hand picked the perfect man for me so I know it will be forever.
Opera_Ghost
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I think about it a lot but not as much as I used to. Not that I have any doubts about the marriage.. I just figure if it's really meant to be it will be. It may be a negative way of thinking but the way I see it no one can predict what will happen. FH does thing that do drive me crazy.. little habits and such. But I love him with his good & bad. We've been through a lot in our short 2 1/2 years together and have seen just about every side of eachother there could possibly be. FH makes me happy and is my best friend. I couldn't ask for more
amandah75
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Of course I have these thoughts. 1 person for the rest of my life? How can you not have what if thoughts.
We are both honest with each other......you can't predict the future and we both realize that while we want this to be forever and are going into it with the firm belief it will be forever, some things don't last forever. We are looking at the marriage vows as a promise to work hard every day to make it last forever. But if one day we realize the relationship has run it's course, we will walk away and do our best to prevent hurting one another.
stinenandy2010
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Definitely, I think its only natural bc its probably the biggest decision you will ever make!
I've thought about it....mainly when FH & I are fighting but then I think 'can I live without him' and everytime (so far!) I've answered no!
Soon2Bmarried007
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The time my FH and I have been together are so much better than without him.
JenBill61210
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Posted by christine2010
honestly i have never wondered that. a lot of my friends who have gotten married, prior to their weddings spoke to old boyfriends just to make sure things were over & done with. i think i have never wondered that because FH was my first boyfriend. kinda like, i don't know what else is out there. but thats they way i like it. i don't like change & since he has been a constant in an ever changing world for me thats what makes me realize that i can be with him forever.
