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soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

My vow

I vow that if I am ever asked to be a bride's maid I will only do it if I really want to. Not just because I am asked. If I do accept the responsiblitiy I will check in with the bride every so often and answer her calls whenever I can. I will not leave her high and dry as some of mine are doing to me.

Tatum&Steve Posted:

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vmystique33 Posted:

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im in the same boat we will be ok we got eachother
EverlovingEv Posted:

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ugh!!!!
I'm so sorry. I haven't asked my girls yet and sincerely hope they're not going to s*ck at it.
Bailey07 Posted:

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Sorry to hear that but people do not take things as serious when it's not their function.

aprlflwr Posted:

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Sorry to hear that.
soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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Posted by Bailey07

Sorry to hear that but people do not take things as serious when it's not their function.

I understand what your saying. BUT it's not an acceptable excuse for totally ignoring me. It goes even deeper than that. I am so angry with this person.
dante31300 Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn


Posted by Bailey07

Sorry to hear that but people do not take things as serious when it's not their function.

I understand what your saying. BUT it's not an acceptable excuse for totally ignoring me. It goes even deeper than that. I am so angry with this person.





I agree with your vow. I am going through the same thing and I know that I will be cutting two people out of my bridal party at the beginning of the year. It's just not worth it. Good luck with your BM.
nposa07 Posted:

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Excellent vow ...I second that!!
werock0709 Posted:

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Posted by nposa07


Excellent vow ...I second that!!

Me too!!
ElenaandEric Posted:

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Sorry to hear you are having trouble with your BM....


Can your MOH help in any way so that the burden isn't totally on you to get your BMs to do what you need?

soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn


Posted by Bailey07

Sorry to hear that but people do not take things as serious when it's not their function.

I understand what your saying. BUT it's not an acceptable excuse for totally ignoring me. It goes even deeper than that. I am so angry with this person.





I agree with your vow. I am going through the same thing and I know that I will be cutting two people out of my bridal party at the beginning of the year. It's just not worth it. Good luck with your BM.

Thank you and you too!
soon2bmrsdunn Posted:

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Posted by ElenaandEric

Sorry to hear you are having trouble with your BM....


Can your MOH help in any way so that the burden isn't totally on you to get your BMs to do what you need?


It's not even that. I don't need her to do anything. But if I can't get in touch with her now what's going to happen when we go dress shopping or she needs to get fitted. What about rehersal?
SAMORY Posted:

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Don't get yourself yp se, if they are actting like they don't wsant to be in your wedding tell thanks but no thanks. This is your day not theirs and it's all about you.

TnOiOnL Posted:

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Posted by nposa07


Excellent vow ...I second that!!

Me too!!

bettybcafe Posted:

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milana Posted:

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i agree with your vow i needed to cut a girl out of my BP and im really happy i did it! Its just not worth it to me to have girls in my BM who arent true to me
chrissyandvin Posted:

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I sorry sweetie!!!
sugarkube4 Posted:

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Posted by soon2bmrsdunn

I vow that if I am ever asked to be a bride's maid I will only do it if I really want to. Not just because I am asked. If I do accept the responsiblitiy I will check in with the bride every so often and answer her calls whenever I can. I will not leave her high and dry as some of mine are doing to me.



I am RIGHT there with you sista!!!! I hate my bridal party right now, except my sister who is my MOH

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