My wedding is off

Russo'sbride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:39 PM

My wedding is off

My FH left me. The past week or so has been hell I have never felt this horrible in my life. I moved back to MA from NYC to live back w/ parents. I hate him. Just need some support

Ang&Rich Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:41 PM

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I'm so sorry. If you need to talk please feel free to FM - I'm here for you!

February05 Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:41 PM

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OMG! i am soooooooooooooooooooo sorry. I really dont even know what to say
i have a million questions, but they can wait.

how are you doing????? is your family being supportive??

im sooo sorry

Backinneyork Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:41 PM

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OMG - I am soooooo sorry.

How are you doing?

tray831 Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:41 PM

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I'm so sorry---- ----Many Hugs to you---Are you OK? Did you see this even coming?

ravens_bride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:43 PM

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OMG Sweetie!!! That's horrible! You have us hear for you! And you can FM me if you want. Wish I could say more to make it better.

Russo'sbride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:44 PM

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He said he had too much pressure fromall the money issues. He was 37 and still living at home. I wanted to work things out. He gave me the rest of my things yesterday hedrove to MA w/ his brother. This is the wrost pain i ever had to deal w/. I have to change my whole life. its hard to even talk about this.

Russo'sbride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:46 PM

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i was a bit embarrassed to say, but now all our friends know. I cant imagine wishing this on anyone. He ahs put me through hell foro this past week and a half pure hell.

ravens_bride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:48 PM

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That's so wrong of him! Would you like to man bash for awhile? you can yell all you want!

Happybride2005 Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:49 PM

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i'm sorry this is happening too you. too bad you guys couldn't work this out.

you have our support

eogara Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:49 PM

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OMG. I'm so sorry!!!

jsb1ot Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:50 PM

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OMG I'm sooo sorry to hear that.

Russo'sbride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:52 PM

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thanks everyone. My family has been there for me. Its just so hard trying to start a whole life over. I left NYC b/c we lived w/ his parents, who were very interfering. I hope i get through this.

Happybride2005 Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:54 PM

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we'll help you get through this. did u get along with his parents?

ravens_bride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:55 PM

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Just stay strong and lean on your family and friends when you feel down.

Russo'sbride Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:57 PM

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Posted by Happybride2005

we'll help you get through this. did u get along with his parents?

For the most part, but his mother was mad that i was only working 2 days a week. She pretty much shouted at me that was the straw that broke the camels back. I went home for the week to think things through and he refused to speak to me. then decided he wanted to never see me again and break everything off b/c he had too much pressure fromt he money issues. He hurt me soo bad. I feel like he just never wanted anythingin the first place. he just couldnt take the pressure of money and moving out and so on. What a baby he's 37 and still living at home.

DebsNY Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:58 PM

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so sorry to hear that... best of luck to you...

Dooodles Posted: Jan 09, 2005 07:58 PM

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I am so so sorry you are dealing with this.
Keep your family and friends close to help you right now. And you have the biggest support group here on this website who are here for you whatever you need, just let us know!