my wedding regrets....

Sweety..everything will work out!! I'm sorry you are feeling that way!! We all have change of heart once in a while but those decisions will be the ones that stand out in the end... Don't stress it..Keep going with wedding planning as normal...

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Posted by AlisonMZ14

i can ease one of your regrets very quickly... i did A LOT of research on city weddings bc i was dead set on it... the nicer hotels in the city range from $350- $500 pp... other locations like lofts are raw spaces require HUGE site fees one place i really wanted had a $15,000 site fee... alsoo most places u need outside catering and only alow certain top notch vendors which run about $200pp for just the food

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I agree, i also really wanted a city wedding and alot of the places i liked were $300 and up per person, and although i wouldve loved it, with 275 guests theres no way.

also let me say that the last city wedding i went to, it was so hectic in the city that night that it took dh and I, an hour and a half to get to the place, and we live right by the city, we are like 10-15 mins from the bridge. We missed CH bc i think infact it took us almost 2 hours. The midtown tunnel closed most of its lanes and only 1 lane was open, once we get off in the city they had construction going on by there and most lanes were closed. We seriously at one point went 30 mins without even moving.

Try to just say...everything happens for a reason. This day is about you and FH, nothing else should matter. You love him, he loves you and your going to spend the rest of your lives together...That is the most important thing!

Im so sorry that you are feeling this way. I am sure once the day comes around, these things wont even cross your mind

I would go to a Thursday night wedding! It's like going out for the night! What's the difference..only better!!!
To be honest, on weekends I get more lazy lol

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Posted by AlisonMZ14

i can ease one of your regrets very quickly... i did A LOT of research on city weddings bc i was dead set on it... the nicer hotels in the city range from $350- $500 pp... other locations like lofts are raw spaces require HUGE site fees one place i really wanted had a $15,000 site fee... alsoo most places u need outside catering and only alow certain top notch vendors which run about $200pp for just the food

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I totally agree... I looked into this too it was INSANE!!!!!!! Even a 'cheap' place was $350 a person and the woman on the phone was telling me this like she was giving me some type of deal!

As for your dress.... i got ivory too and I love it. im sure it looks great on your skin tone and in the pics you wont be able to see much different (unless you got that really bright white color) so I wouldnt stress that much